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 Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 10:45 pm
Somone fixed me a blind date with a guy, it turns out to be really good date. At the end of the date he said, call me tomrow. I like him and i really want to call but i don't want to sound to eager to meet. when do you think i should call him? heart
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Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 12:47 am
If he tells you to call him tomorrow. call him tomorrow. because if you try to call him a week later maybe he will find someone by then. try calling him in the afternoon or something. ^_^ i wish you luck!
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Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 9:33 pm
Wait at least 24 hours I suppose. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 11:31 am
Update, well i caled him the next day. He said he wants to go out but he is to tired, so we didn't went out.
Then he called after two days ask me to go out, i said ok, and he never called back.
I think he is to busy for me, mybe i should just drop it. What do you guys think?
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 12:55 pm
shani26 Update, well i caled him the next day. He said he wants to go out but he is to tired, so we didn't went out. Then he called after two days ask me to go out, i said ok, and he never called back. I think he is to busy for me, mybe i should just drop it. What do you guys think? I would tell him. Maybe it's work that's making him slow down. Just call, and see what the matter is, and maybe you can work it out. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 1:20 pm
I'd say give him a bit of time ... but not wait around forever ... things that are rushed never last
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 1:40 pm
It's been 3 days since he last called i think he is not going to call again. I think i should just drop it, what do you guys think?
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 8:05 pm
Go out with other people if that's what you want. If it gets to be more then a week, forget it. But if he calls and is truely sorry and whatever, why not?
Keep your schedual penciled for about a week, after that, your busy. 3nodding If a week is too long, then you come up with another time line if you want. I would go a week or so..
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 11:54 pm
Give him some time, if he's interested he'll come around.. or you could call and just ask is he doing ok, that you were just wondering becuz you haven't heard from him. That way he'll see that you care and are interested. Good luck!
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Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 3:20 am
Well i am going to call him today, after i will send this post. i am not going to talk to him about date, just ask him to help out another friend of mine.
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Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 6:44 pm
alright. I don't think you should drop it though just give it a little time. I'm sure you guys will work something out. If you find another guy to go out with you can because you don't have any commitment to him.
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Posted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 10:33 pm
meleny7 i never said i feel comited to him, i dont date others right now, cuz i don't go out much to a places where i can meet guys.
update
About this guy as i said i called, we talk about my friend, then he said lets go out to a movie.
i said ok. I went to chose the movie, and called him he didn't answer, so i text him (SMS) with the datils ask him if i should buy the tickets.
He text me back we will go to hours later and buy tickets there.
I text ok without really consentrate (I was babysiting at the time).
Then at the evening after i met my family, i saw that he text me that we will buy the tickets there so i understand he is leving an opsion to not go, so i just went to sleep.
He called really late, ask me if i want to go out again.
I said ok, allthose i was sleeping before he called.
Then he started to tell me that he is tired.
i told him "tell me all about it tomrow, i am sleeping" and i hang up.
So, from now on i am not going to call him, or acpect something to happen between us. If he ask me for a date i will say no. I am going to delete his number from my cell!
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 9:02 am
not my intention to say that message. just saying that just in case someone else pops up. Let's say that a lot of the times I answer the question not only for now but in case for future issues.
wow what a jerk >.< i don't understand people. if he's so tired he shouldn't bring anything up unless he's 100 percent sure that he could do it because that's disappointing. you might want to keep the number just in case you need it for something. but the other choices i guess it's the right thing to do.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 9:33 pm
ok, i am going to say something comfuzing now i know.
He called again saying he is going to run, and we can go out after that. somehow we decided i can come along with him, on my roller. I decided to go with it cuz i didn't roller for a really long time, and didn't do sport for a hole week.
After that he said he is going to buy stuff, i told him i need to buy stuff too, so we went togther, then we sat on a coffe shop.
This was on sturday, he didn't call since then. My boss told me i should let him call me, and i didn't call him. I didn't want to see him unteel now anyway, cuz i am feeling bad, my stomec hurt, and my leg hurt, so i just want to rest, so all i do is work, just started a new jobs, so it is bad time to be sick.
I wish he would call so we can just talk.
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:53 am
lol it is a bit confusing.. wow im sorry that you don't feel well i hope you feel better. your boss is right. just let him call you. it's not worth it for you to call him and then he doesn't do the same. for a friendship to work it has to be mutual.
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