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Hmm, I'm tempted to repeat my advice about writing it down in a letter. That way you can get out what you feel in a more calm way, and have it laid out properly, rather than in a confusing way which might happen if you say it out loud.

Then you can also decide when to give it to her, whether to leave it on the kitchen table before you go to school or work, or leave it in her room before you go to bed. She'll also then have time to think about what to say, rather than have it sprung on her.

That said you might find it easier to say it outloud, rather than carry a piece of paper around in your bag for weeks while you try to work out what to do with it.

I am conflicted xp Someone else!!

The main problem with leaving a note is that it may scare her thinking that you might hurt yourself which I know you think is why she hasn't told you herself. The best thing to do dear is to just sit down with her and tell her you want to have a serious talk and let her know that if you start crying it is just cause you need to get your feelings out. Tears are healing and shouldn't be held in even if it means that someone else cries as well. Maybe she needs to cry -maybe she has been keeping her emotions tightly buttoned up to spare you for fear of upsetting you. You both need the time together to just sit and talk about it. Give yourself and your mom some credit sweetie. Now is when you need each other the most. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

I'm glad you managed to tell her hun.

*Big hugs*

I'm glad you told her~ <33

Warm wishes to you both. (: