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PostPosted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 5:33 pm


So, I'm having really really bad guy problems. There's these 2 guys, jeremy and Zach, who both like me but I like both of them and I don't know who to choose!
I met Jeremy on a video game (SHUT UP) 2 years ago and about november-ish last year he was all "i love you" and i was all "yay!" and then he totally joined the Marines and they're brain washing him cuz he's all serious all the time now, and he'll be in marine bases for the rest of his life, and recently it.. just doesn't feel right and i was kinda considering ending it and then I got back in touch with Zach, who goes to my old school and i had a HUUUUUUGE crush on before I moved and then HE was all like "i love you!" and i was all like "yay!? ..." and he's really sweet, cute, smart, lives in the same state, and isn't like, 5 years older than me, but if i go with him i have to pry him away from his cheating ex-girlfriend who he might go back out with cuz she's taking a brak up hard that was totally her fault and I've never had an actual boyfriend before and I have no idea what to do HEEELP MEEEE!!! Please?
I have no idea what to do, cuz I don't want to hurt wither of them, or make a fool of my self cuz I don't know how to handle relationships at all and just... gonk eek xp sweatdrop wahmbulance redface crying question exclaim  
PostPosted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 8:11 pm


Just follow your heart. I know you posted that because you're having a really hard time deciding with your heart but trust yourself.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:57 pm


Otaku knows what he's talking about because he's right
PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2008 10:26 am


Tough situation.

Well, Jeremy is a Marine... and it seems like you are having issues coping with him being a marine- because it is changing him. But that's how it is, you can't exactly tell him to just stop being one. Thats not fair to him.

Might I ask, have you ever met him in person, or is it an online/phone/long distance type of thing?

As for Zach, and his ex- "once a cheater, always a cheater" comes to mind. Hopefully he will realize that.
The prying shouldn't be so difficult, considering she did cheat on him. If they just broke up because of say - space issues, it would be more difficult.

I am sure he knows that she is likely to cheat again, and just needs that pull away from here- like a different 'opprotunity'.


Now with all that said, it still really matters- which one does your heart want?

They both may say they love you- but which one do you love?
And which one can you not live without?

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 17, 2008 11:15 am


I have to agree with Rayna. there really isn't more to add to that.
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