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I don't know why but the guys I tend to be attracted to are usually straight...relatively older married and have kids....
Why? I don't know.
But it's not like I go out and look for a guy walking with his wife and kids. I see a guy by himself and he has this aura about him and I like that...and then it just turns out that he's a dad or a husband or both. I try to get over them after I find out but sometimes I can't help it.
If it's not those types it's the die hard straight gotta get a different girl every week straight guy. >_< Once again I don't go out looking for them I am attracted to a person and then later on find out about their status.
When it comes to the married or father types I don't want to intrude so I try my best to stay away and not flirt. But when it comes to the other type...I don't care. I've done things with a few of the die hard straight types before but then I grew a brain and a conscious. I don't want to be responsible for any confusion regarding their orientation afterwards...but more recently I moved to a new place. The guys out here are different. I am crushing on one right now that I'm sure is straight but I don't care. He's noticed me but I kind of avoid getting up close to him so that I don't start conversation with him and fall for him even more.
Please please please, any advice would be good? What do I do or what should I do? Is there anything that I should avoid saying or doing?

I think it's important to know what kind of guy you want ? In a sense that you won't settle for less. If you're looking for a long term relationship then you know you won't want to settle with someone who is already with another person you know? smile Good luck and I'm sure you'll find the guy of your dreams eventually ~