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Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2008 11:03 pm
An article from two years ago that I was linked to today by Kate/lymelady talks about how Conservatives are happier than Liberals. I mean, literally, studies have shown that Conservatives, whether their party is in power or not, are happier than Liberals. And it explores why. Now, one reason could be that religious people, and married couples, are more likely to be Conservative, and also more likely to be happy. But I think these all, being religious, being Conservative, and even being happily married, are related to their personality more than affecting their personality, if that makes any sense. They look at happiness differently, and that's why they are Conservative, that's why they stay married, and that's why they are happy.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/02/22/AR2006022202012.html
The most important part of this article, I think, is in the middle there, and he doesn't expound on it as much as I'd like; Democrats look at happiness as a goal. We want people to be happy. We want to make them happy by giving them money if they can't/won't/aren't making money right now, and can't take care of themselves. Socialism and communism are the same way; Everyone deserves to be happy, the government should take care of everyone, the government should make everyone happy!
But there's a reason the Declaration of Independence calls it the -pursuit- of happiness. It doesn't say that man has the unalienable right to happiness, it says that man has the unalienable right to the -pursuit- of happiness. And, in regards to the economy and money, this is how Republicans, Conservatives, look at it. Happiness isn't just the destination, it's the trip. When you work towards happiness, there's a satisfaction. There's a certain happiness to know you're working for what you're getting.
As opposed to the people who get welfare and just want more.
See, when you don't have to work for your happiness, there's always something better. If you just give people welfare, they come to expect it, and they complain that you aren't giving them enough. Even though it's free! They didn't do anything to deserve it, they won't have to do anything to pay it back! Yet they want more. It's like the proverb of giving a man a fish, except, if you give a man a fish every day for a year, he'll come to expect it. If you then try to teach him how to fish, he'll say, "Why bother? You're already giving me fish every day. But actually, I'm still hungry, and see, I've got this wife, and these two kids... They want fishes too."
That's why Republicans, and other fiscal Conservatives, are against welfare, in it's current state, and other socialist policies. Not because we hate poor people. But because a) We earned our money, and we don't see why it should be taken away for perfectly able people, and b) You're spoiling the people who come to expect welfare, and teach their kids that it's okay to rely on welfare.
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 5:11 pm
It could be that liberals notice more things wrong in the world, like the wars, starvation, genocide and inequalities while the conservatives are too preoccupied with their personal happiness.
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:13 pm
Wow, Divine, you have this pessimism thing down. You believe that conservatives are self-centered, because if you're right, you knew it, and if you're wrong, you're pleasantly surprised.
Kudos, come join us!
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:13 pm
Umm... Right, okay, or you could read the post and respond to actual things said instead of going off on your dislike of conservatives. xd
How do liberals help the rest of the world, hmm? They b***h a lot about how we're screwing up the world, but I see more conservative-Christian based charity organizations helping the rest of the world than I do secular or more liberal groups of Christianity. Even with the war in Iraq. What was the liberal response to the inequalities, starvation, genocide, and inner wars of Iraq? "Oh, we'll talk to them, and throw embargoes at them. That'll show them." Like it has for the past ten years? Sure, sure, or maybe the leaders of Iraq would have just kept what money they got from trade to themselves, and let the peasants suffer. ...Oh s**t, wait, that's what they actually did!
Meanwhile, the conservative reaction is, "s**t, we need to get in there and help these people." Yeah, another one of the reasons was the WMDs. But honestly, I think that may have been partially an excuse to go in; Because liberals prefer to let other nations in trouble suffer rather then send in military force. We have to "negotiate," even when the people in that country are not interested in negotiating.
So tell me, what have liberals done for people outside their own little world lately?
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Posted: Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:15 pm
lymelady Wow, Divine, you have this pessimism thing down. You believe that conservatives are self-centered, because if you're right, you knew it, and if you're wrong, you're pleasantly surprised. Kudos, come join us! XD Touche.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 11:33 am
lymelady Wow, Divine, you have this pessimism thing down. You believe that conservatives are self-centered, because if you're right, you knew it, and if you're wrong, you're pleasantly surprised. Kudos, come join us! ...That's not what I was saying. I was saying that may be a liberal argument to the contrary.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 11:34 am
I.Am Umm... Right, okay, or you could read the post and respond to actual things said instead of going off on your dislike of conservatives. xd How do liberals help the rest of the world, hmm? They b***h a lot about how we're screwing up the world, but I see more conservative-Christian based charity organizations helping the rest of the world than I do secular or more liberal groups of Christianity. Even with the war in Iraq. What was the liberal response to the inequalities, starvation, genocide, and inner wars of Iraq? "Oh, we'll talk to them, and throw embargoes at them. That'll show them." Like it has for the past ten years? Sure, sure, or maybe the leaders of Iraq would have just kept what money they got from trade to themselves, and let the peasants suffer. ...Oh s**t, wait, that's what they actually did! Meanwhile, the conservative reaction is, "s**t, we need to get in there and help these people." Yeah, another one of the reasons was the WMDs. But honestly, I think that may have been partially an excuse to go in; Because liberals prefer to let other nations in trouble suffer rather then send in military force. We have to "negotiate," even when the people in that country are not interested in negotiating. So tell me, what have liberals done for people outside their own little world lately? And by "help" you mean "bomb".
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 2:22 pm
It wouldn't be a very balanced one. I mean, think about it. Why do conservatives tend to say "self-reliant" and liberals tend to say "government-reliant?" It's a different worldview, but which one gives you more control?
When you say "self-reliant" then when you fail, you know it is on your hands and you work harder. You have more control over your path and happiness and you aren't concerned with someone else failing to do something instrumental to your happiness.
When you say "government-reliant" if the government isn't doing what you want, you worry. It's part of your plan, part of your vision, a working government doing x, y, and z, and when the government doesn't do x, y, and z, there is no way to finish the plan.
The same is true when applying it to a society; the conservative says, "I will donate my time and money to this charity to help my fellow man," in place of, "the government should take care of my fellow man." They can see the direct results of their direct contribution, whether it's working for hours in a soup kitchen or keeping tabs on the charities you donate to and see what they're doing, and you're doing it without compelling other people to pay when they don't want to, thus you don't have the frustration of, "Stupid greedy people care more about themselves," because you can directly see how many people are willingly contributing to care for other people. It's a very heartening experience.
Nowhere does that make any insinuation that liberals are anything bad, just that they look at the world a different way. At worst you could say it calls liberals misguided from a conservative viewpoint because from the stance that the pursuit of happiness brings happiness in itself, though the intentions are good, it ends up robbing people and leaving them feeling entitled to more and thus never satisfied.
What you said insinuates that conservatives are selfish. Not just misguided, but selfish, egocentric, greedy people who don't care about those things as much as liberals do. It's an unbalanced counterpoint.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 2:25 pm
divineseraph I.Am Umm... Right, okay, or you could read the post and respond to actual things said instead of going off on your dislike of conservatives. xd How do liberals help the rest of the world, hmm? They b***h a lot about how we're screwing up the world, but I see more conservative-Christian based charity organizations helping the rest of the world than I do secular or more liberal groups of Christianity. Even with the war in Iraq. What was the liberal response to the inequalities, starvation, genocide, and inner wars of Iraq? "Oh, we'll talk to them, and throw embargoes at them. That'll show them." Like it has for the past ten years? Sure, sure, or maybe the leaders of Iraq would have just kept what money they got from trade to themselves, and let the peasants suffer. ...Oh s**t, wait, that's what they actually did! Meanwhile, the conservative reaction is, "s**t, we need to get in there and help these people." Yeah, another one of the reasons was the WMDs. But honestly, I think that may have been partially an excuse to go in; Because liberals prefer to let other nations in trouble suffer rather then send in military force. We have to "negotiate," even when the people in that country are not interested in negotiating. So tell me, what have liberals done for people outside their own little world lately? And by "help" you mean "bomb". Bomb bomb bomb, bomb bomb Iran.... But no. This is why it's hard to believe you don't believe that "conservatives don't care about the bad things in the world, only their happiness," quip. Are you willfully ignoring the humanitarian things that are going on, or do they not justify the war? Because one way you're ignorant, the other way you've got an informed opinion and you disagree on a philosophical level, which is cool, but then no one will waste time trying to bring you up to speed.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 4:28 pm
divineseraph And by "help" you mean "bomb". Sure, Divine, that's what I mean. rolleyes If by "bomb" you mean "kill their oppressors, which they were incapable of doing on their own, and allowing them to form a democratic government with leaders of their own choosing." I suppose that, in World War II, when the allies re-took France, we weren't liberating the people of France, we were just bombing it. Oh, and concentration camps, yeah, we totally just bombed the hell out of those. It was awesome. P.S. I just adore how you totally ignore my turning your own words against you. wink Apparently my pseudo-support of the "bombing" of Iraq justifies ignoring most of my argument.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:01 pm
Liberation is always a front. We stepped in in the last stages of the war. We also had our fair share of dealings with the Nazis, on an economic and business level.
Iraq chose Saddam, amirite?
There are plenty of charities from both liberal and conservatives. I think the feeling of liberals on Iraq was basically "We set up Saddam in the first place, and what we really have to gain are business contracts." And the idea of a few people taking all the money for themselves sounds a lot like something else.
What have liberals done? It's more like, what haven't conservatives done. I feel that you're looking at this the wrong way- Most of the problems are caused by our own past actions. By doing no harm now, we will not be harmed later.
I am not a liberal, but I agree with them on the war issue, and on a few other things. Like how I agree with conservatives on a few things.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:04 pm
lymelady divineseraph I.Am Umm... Right, okay, or you could read the post and respond to actual things said instead of going off on your dislike of conservatives. xd How do liberals help the rest of the world, hmm? They b***h a lot about how we're screwing up the world, but I see more conservative-Christian based charity organizations helping the rest of the world than I do secular or more liberal groups of Christianity. Even with the war in Iraq. What was the liberal response to the inequalities, starvation, genocide, and inner wars of Iraq? "Oh, we'll talk to them, and throw embargoes at them. That'll show them." Like it has for the past ten years? Sure, sure, or maybe the leaders of Iraq would have just kept what money they got from trade to themselves, and let the peasants suffer. ...Oh s**t, wait, that's what they actually did! Meanwhile, the conservative reaction is, "s**t, we need to get in there and help these people." Yeah, another one of the reasons was the WMDs. But honestly, I think that may have been partially an excuse to go in; Because liberals prefer to let other nations in trouble suffer rather then send in military force. We have to "negotiate," even when the people in that country are not interested in negotiating. So tell me, what have liberals done for people outside their own little world lately? And by "help" you mean "bomb". Bomb bomb bomb, bomb bomb Iran.... But no. This is why it's hard to believe you don't believe that "conservatives don't care about the bad things in the world, only their happiness," quip. Are you willfully ignoring the humanitarian things that are going on, or do they not justify the war? Because one way you're ignorant, the other way you've got an informed opinion and you disagree on a philosophical level, which is cool, but then no one will waste time trying to bring you up to speed. I don't believe it entirely. It depends on the conservative in question. I don't like blanket statements unless they're pretty specific. The CEO's raking in cash from the weapons, oil and construction businesses probably don't care much beyond what goes into their pockets. This isn't to say that there aren't other conservatives who choose to help. Just like how not all liberals will choose to stay out of issues like this in the name of peace.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:34 pm
divineseraph lymelady divineseraph I.Am Umm... Right, okay, or you could read the post and respond to actual things said instead of going off on your dislike of conservatives. xd How do liberals help the rest of the world, hmm? They b***h a lot about how we're screwing up the world, but I see more conservative-Christian based charity organizations helping the rest of the world than I do secular or more liberal groups of Christianity. Even with the war in Iraq. What was the liberal response to the inequalities, starvation, genocide, and inner wars of Iraq? "Oh, we'll talk to them, and throw embargoes at them. That'll show them." Like it has for the past ten years? Sure, sure, or maybe the leaders of Iraq would have just kept what money they got from trade to themselves, and let the peasants suffer. ...Oh s**t, wait, that's what they actually did! Meanwhile, the conservative reaction is, "s**t, we need to get in there and help these people." Yeah, another one of the reasons was the WMDs. But honestly, I think that may have been partially an excuse to go in; Because liberals prefer to let other nations in trouble suffer rather then send in military force. We have to "negotiate," even when the people in that country are not interested in negotiating. So tell me, what have liberals done for people outside their own little world lately? And by "help" you mean "bomb". Bomb bomb bomb, bomb bomb Iran.... But no. This is why it's hard to believe you don't believe that "conservatives don't care about the bad things in the world, only their happiness," quip. Are you willfully ignoring the humanitarian things that are going on, or do they not justify the war? Because one way you're ignorant, the other way you've got an informed opinion and you disagree on a philosophical level, which is cool, but then no one will waste time trying to bring you up to speed. I don't believe it entirely. It depends on the conservative in question. I don't like blanket statements unless they're pretty specific. The CEO's raking in cash from the weapons, oil and construction businesses probably don't care much beyond what goes into their pockets. This isn't to say that there aren't other conservatives who choose to help. Just like how not all liberals will choose to stay out of issues like this in the name of peace. But you can say the same for liberal CEO's. There are many of those, and yeah, benefiting from this war too. But the majority, hell, MOST of conservatives who support the things Andy mentioned are not CEOs at all (I wish I was though), or anywhere near it, and are personally not benefiting from the war at all. And to say "And by help you mean bomb," because of a few greedy CEOs out of millions of people, some of whom have lost family members in this war? To negate all of them with a negative stereotype? The fact that you believe it enough to do that is amusing to me.
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:35 pm
Divine, you totally boggle me with your positions. First you say that Liberals are better than Conservatives, because they "notice more things wrong in the world, like the wars, starvation, genocide and inequalities," then you say that Conservatives are bad because they try to help with these things, and it comes back to bite them in the a**.
So which is it? Are liberals better because they care more, or should we not care at all because it could come back and bite us in the a**?
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Posted: Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:10 pm
I.Am Divine, you totally boggle me with your positions. First you say that Liberals are better than Conservatives, because they "notice more things wrong in the world, like the wars, starvation, genocide and inequalities," then you say that Conservatives are bad because they try to help with these things, and it comes back to bite them in the a**. So which is it? Are liberals better because they care more, or should we not care at all because it could come back and bite us in the a**? It's both. It's the way conservatives SHOW their care- instead of by actively trying to seek out peace, often it's to bomb something or kill someone. Caring is good. Doing things is good. Doing too much, or something negative, is bad. So, being involved with Iraq isn't necessarily a bad thing. Until we kill off their government and set up a dictator, only to realize a few decades later that he's insane and end up bombing them anyway. See how "Being involved" doesn't always mean "dropping a bomb"? It's HOW the conservatives often end up doing things that is an issue for me.
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