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 Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:38 pm
ok, as a general rule i am totally opposed to love spells seeing as most of them try to control another person's will, which is just mean and wrong.
so this is my situation: my boyfriend and i are currently having to make this work long distance, which sucks, but work has him all the way in wyoming while i'm stuck here in alabama (it will be a year in december since i've seen him). so i was just wondering if anyone knows of a non-controling "safe-guard our love" kind of spell. things are feeling kinda shakey with the lack of closeness and intimacy, and the whole "absence makes the heart grow fonder" bit only really works once you're back in you sweety's arms, at least with my experience, and who knows when he'll get to come home. crying he was supposed to come back earlier this month, but they need him at work and are even bribing him to stay, the meanies.
since we already love each other and want to be together, but unfortunately can't, i don't think it would hurt if i could work a spell to keep our love strong. if i can (find a workable spell) i will most likey call upon Aphrodite, as i understand she loves to help out people in our situation if she sees fit, but i would still love all of your imput and ideas, if you don't mind ^^ heart
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 1:05 pm
Oh, well that is both tough and simple in the same. It seems what you might want is not so much a spell. A simple "mind string" might work. Implanting thoughts of yourself in his mind so he wont forget you, your love and the memories you cherish most about your love together. If this is something your interesting in learning I would suggest pming me. I will talk to the person who taught me (for she is more experienced then me) and see if she would be interesting in making a class room about it or even teaching you personaly via pms. If this isn't something you would be interesting in, let me know and I'll do my best to think of other ways.
Another way might be infusing memories of the two of you into a tigers eye stone and then making a necklace or some such way for him to carry it on him at all times.
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Posted: Sun Nov 09, 2008 5:15 pm
i agree with O-to - you are looking more for a juju bag, something that you can carry on your person and when you touch it, you think of the person and vice versa.
on a personal note, long distance relationships are very hard to work through, and i would say that if you've been together for a year then there's no problems. What it sounds like you're experiencing is some sort of trust issue or loss of faith if you feel you need to 'safe-guard' your love with him.
the best way to keep your love strong is to pick something that can remind him of you and have him carry it around, and have him pick out something for you that will remind you of him and carry it around.
This is the basic premise of the 'mind thread' that O-To was talking about, although i'm certain she wasn't referring to me in her message to you.
The only way it will work as far as it being a two way street and non-free-will inhibiting is if you both give an object to the other. Once you have it and you're going to send it to him, bless it and cleanse it during a new moon (on it's way to full) and say a prayer to Diana (the goddess of LURVE) that when he recieves it, sees it, touches it, feels it his heart fills with the happiness of you and the earnest desire to hold you in his arms again. if you both are wiccan/pagan/earthy - write the spell and both of you do it, send it to the other, when you get the object, do the same thing but reverse it - when i see this, touch this, feel this, remember this, my heart fills with happiness and the earnest desire to hold them in my arms again.
Then.... when you see it/touch it/feel it/remember it, just visualize a long, thin, silver thread connecting you both and know that you are in each others hearts!
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 11:56 am
thank you for all of your ideas, i will definately have to look into some of these.
i don't think i have any trust or faith issues, i just don't want him to give up because of the distance. i have no problems thinking of him, i do it everyday ^^
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 2:30 pm
anonymous new life i agree with O-to - you are looking more for a juju bag, something that you can carry on your person and when you touch it, you think of the person and vice versa. on a personal note, long distance relationships are very hard to work through, and i would say that if you've been together for a year then there's no problems. What it sounds like you're experiencing is some sort of trust issue or loss of faith if you feel you need to 'safe-guard' your love with him. the best way to keep your love strong is to pick something that can remind him of you and have him carry it around, and have him pick out something for you that will remind you of him and carry it around. This is the basic premise of the 'mind thread' that O-To was talking about, although i'm certain she wasn't referring to me in her message to you. The only way it will work as far as it being a two way street and non-free-will inhibiting is if you both give an object to the other. Once you have it and you're going to send it to him, bless it and cleanse it during a new moon (on it's way to full) and say a prayer to Diana (the goddess of LURVE) that when he recieves it, sees it, touches it, feels it his heart fills with the happiness of you and the earnest desire to hold you in his arms again. if you both are wiccan/pagan/earthy - write the spell and both of you do it, send it to the other, when you get the object, do the same thing but reverse it - when i see this, touch this, feel this, remember this, my heart fills with happiness and the earnest desire to hold them in my arms again. Then.... when you see it/touch it/feel it/remember it, just visualize a long, thin, silver thread connecting you both and know that you are in each others hearts! Your just so damn smart. I'm envious.
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Posted: Tue Apr 07, 2009 7:20 pm
O-TO-KO-YO anonymous new life i agree with O-to - you are looking more for a juju bag, something that you can carry on your person and when you touch it, you think of the person and vice versa. on a personal note, long distance relationships are very hard to work through, and i would say that if you've been together for a year then there's no problems. What it sounds like you're experiencing is some sort of trust issue or loss of faith if you feel you need to 'safe-guard' your love with him. the best way to keep your love strong is to pick something that can remind him of you and have him carry it around, and have him pick out something for you that will remind you of him and carry it around. This is the basic premise of the 'mind thread' that O-To was talking about, although i'm certain she wasn't referring to me in her message to you. The only way it will work as far as it being a two way street and non-free-will inhibiting is if you both give an object to the other. Once you have it and you're going to send it to him, bless it and cleanse it during a new moon (on it's way to full) and say a prayer to Diana (the goddess of LURVE) that when he recieves it, sees it, touches it, feels it his heart fills with the happiness of you and the earnest desire to hold you in his arms again. if you both are wiccan/pagan/earthy - write the spell and both of you do it, send it to the other, when you get the object, do the same thing but reverse it - when i see this, touch this, feel this, remember this, my heart fills with happiness and the earnest desire to hold them in my arms again. Then.... when you see it/touch it/feel it/remember it, just visualize a long, thin, silver thread connecting you both and know that you are in each others hearts! Your just so damn smart. I'm envious. ' Nah, just good at what I do. Sadly, my powers are only for the betterment of mankind.
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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 4:10 am
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Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 1:44 pm
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
This is bad!!!!
I'm sorry, the psychologist in me is butting into this.
Real love does not need any potion, spell, or instant fix. If you love eachother, that love will stay strong and powerful no matter the circumstances. You don't need a spell or a talisman to tell you how you feel.
Trust me, messing with love in any respect is asking for trouble and most often ends up destroying what you hoped to preserve!
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Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 12:17 pm
ZaiaFantasy NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO This is bad!!!! I'm sorry, the psychologist in me is butting into this. Real love does not need any potion, spell, or instant fix. If you love eachother, that love will stay strong and powerful no matter the circumstances. You don't need a spell or a talisman to tell you how you feel. Trust me, messing with love in any respect is asking for trouble and most often ends up destroying what you hoped to preserve! no offense, but i have to disagree, we broke up.... because of distance..... too much stress.... thanks. oh well, guess it wasnt in the cards.
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Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 7:48 pm
jypsie-lady ZaiaFantasy NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO This is bad!!!! I'm sorry, the psychologist in me is butting into this. Real love does not need any potion, spell, or instant fix. If you love eachother, that love will stay strong and powerful no matter the circumstances. You don't need a spell or a talisman to tell you how you feel. Trust me, messing with love in any respect is asking for trouble and most often ends up destroying what you hoped to preserve! no offense, but i have to disagree, we broke up.... because of distance..... too much stress.... thanks. oh well, guess it wasnt in the cards. I'm sorry you had that experience but I know long distance relationships can work. I'm in one. My boyfriend and I love eachother dearly but for now his life is across the country from mine. We understand that in eachother and love eachother the same today as we did when we first met and that won't change. If you two broke up it's because the love wasn't strong enough or true enough. No talisman would have helped. I've got a hug if you need it...
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