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 Posted: Sat Nov 15, 2008 2:58 pm
So, I think my bi-polar is really affecting my love life (wow, yeah, news flash there).
But it is in an odd way. It seems like the relationship cycles like I do. It starts out intense and in an upswing, and ends in distance and me wanting to blame my partner for everything that is wrong.
What's really bad is the longer this goes on the less I want to communicate, about anything. My feelings are more likely to get hurt over the stupidest things, and I go through phases of questioning whether or not I'm still in love. Some days I can't even get myself to say it, and other days it feels like I am, but I feel like an idiot if I do say it.
After two weeks of dating I told him about the bi-polar, and several times over the two and half years we've dated I've told him I really need him to be stable for me. But we both have our problems, and we both have issues. And it just seems like it's never going to work.
I've only had two serious relationships in my 21 years, and the first one dragged on too long and ended with me feeling better. This one is dragging on and is ending with me in tears wishing everything had been different.
Has anyone else had issues like this? Is it the bi-polar? Or is there something else going on here? Lastly, do all guys repeat the same mistakes over and over again, even though they seem truely remorsful everytime you call them on it?
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Posted: Sun Mar 01, 2009 3:05 pm
Yup most boys in my school think i'm weird but but it has not been proven that I have bipolar disorder but I have syptoms of bipolar disorder you can read about it in the forum its called joining you guild and my syptoms.
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Fashionable Businesswoman
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:56 pm
Thanks to me being Bi-polar I can not keep a relationship for to long, the longest one I ever had was 13 weeks and its all because i couldent stop being sad that I wasent good enough for her (and she was BEAUTIFUL)
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Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 5:22 pm
This is going to sound a little crazy. But my boyfriend and I are both bipolar. Somehow it works. Personally I think it's because we both understand to a certain extent what the other person is going through. Although, our bipolar manifests differently. I am bipolar depressive. I'm not sure what type his is. He understands that I can't always help how shitty I feel sometimes. I understand about his procrastination problems and his weird mood swings.
But with a non-bipolar person? I always felt like I was trying to hide a certain part of myself. It is hard when you worry that they won't understand. Then you end up creating a distance that might not be there otherwise.
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Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 6:24 am
The longest relationship Ive ever been in, I couldnt maintain, because I was alwase depressive. The regular me wouldve gotten as physical and emotional you can get with someone, but being depressive and suicidal all the time, I was distant and dissociated, I didnt talk, all I did was lay on him all the time, and make small talk.
Ive never been able to make someone happy like that :/
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