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Hatake-Azami

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 11:05 pm


HAs anyone ever told you that you can't have something or do something because they don't want you to die? It makes me so mad at times when the people who I consider friends do this to me. I know that they think it is kinda funny, but it really gets frustrating. For example we were planning a camping trip and everyone was going to go for a hike. They told me I shouldn't go because I could die. WTF!!!! When they decide to go out for ice cream or something they say the same thing and laugh... until I blew up on them. Is that ok that I finally told them that I hate it when they do that?
PostPosted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 1:26 pm


I think you had the right to explain to them that it frustrates you, because when people do that to me it makes me angry too.

I think alot of people only see the bad side of diabetes, and they only see the negative affect of diabetes because.... When you abuse yourself and diabetes then the side affects become more appearant (Ie. People without legs, loss of vision, etc)

But you really can't tell that someone is a diabetic just by looking at them, especially if they take care of them selves. You can tell however if they're like way over weight and have amputated limbs.... you know what i'm saying?

The bad visions override the good.... and people don't understand that just because you're a diabetic, it doesn't mean that you're going to die if you eat ice cream or whatever.

I think you should explain to them, "Look I know what im doing," and if they challenge you, then I say that, thats your invitation to the biggest "How insulin, Diabetes, and carbs" work rant. 3nodding

Alot of my friends at first were like..."ALLY!!??!?! YOU CANT EAT THAT ZOMG WTF!??!?!?!?!" and after a while I was like, THIS IS HOW IT WORKS! XD SO CUT IT OUT!

^^

Allychan90
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Sai_Moogle

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 12:12 am


My friends have never been like zomg, yur gonna die. At least not to my face anyway.
But it was totally understandable that you got upset, anyone would.
It's fine to joke, but there's joking and then there's just being plain offensive.
And they were being offensive in my book.

But the thing that annoys me is when they ask about a blood sugar reading, and get all super freaked out over nothing.
Here's a conversation I had with a friend:

Me- Sorry about that, had to check my blood sugar.

Friend- That's cool, what was it?

Me- 150

Friend- zomg that's so bad! Why aren't you taking better care of it?

Me- .... It's only ten points out of my normal range, it's not gonna hurt me.

Friend- Oh.

I get that they're concerned but it doesn't always help.
Also, I had a low one day when we went to a theme park, and another friend of mine was convinced that I was a brittle diabetic because I said it wasn't a big deal.
We had been walking for awhile, it made sense that I would have a low. No need for hysterics.

I don't know.
The more they care and ask about it and freak out about it, the more I wish they would leave me alone about it.
I'm a big girl, I know how to take care of myself, kthx.
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