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PostPosted: Wed Dec 31, 2008 1:45 pm


http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/4045097/Mother-has-healthy-baby-boy-despite-abortion-warning-by-doctor.html
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Mother has healthy baby boy despite abortion warning by doctor
A mother who was twice advised to have an abortion by doctors has gone on to have a 'perfectly' healthy son.

By Paul Stokes
Last Updated: 4:37PM GMT 31 Dec 2008

Gaynor Purdy twice refused advice to abort Kai during pregnancy Photo: ROSS PARRY AGENCY
Gaynor Purdy was warned her first child could have a fatal chromosome defect and a life threatening heart condition.

But she rejected two suggestions to terminate the pregnancy and she and her husband Lee are celebrating life with their "perfect" ten-month-old son.

Mrs Purdy, 28, a quality control inspector, said: "We refused to give up on him, and decided throughout the pregnancy that as long as he was fighting, we would continue fighting with him."

The couple from Scunthorpe, Lincs, were delighted when they discovered they had conceived shortly before their first wedding anniversary.

Four months into the pregnancy doctors told them that part of their unborn child's heart was narrow and underdeveloped and would mean open heart surgery if the baby was born.

They were warned the condition could worsen and around Christmas last year, an immediate termination should be considered.

Further tests conducted a few days later on New Year's Eve suggested the baby could also have Edwards Syndrome - the presence of an 18th chromosome - with a life expectancy of only up to four months if birth is survived.

Consultants again recommended the couple consider aborting the baby, fearing he would little to no quality of life once he was born.

For the second time, Mrs Purdy and her husband, a 29 year old forklift driver, declined the suggestion.

Kai was born six weeks premature on March 5 at Scunthorpe General Hospital weighing just 2lb 6oz and immediately admitted to intensive care, but was discharged within six weeks.

One side of his heart was slightly bigger than the other which may need an operation to correct in the future, but regular tests have been showing the condition is constantly improving.

The chromosome disorder, which affects growth, is also being closely monitored and he is due to undergo some corrective cosmetic surgery in the New Year.

Mrs Purdy added: "Doctors told us he was a little miracle baby. They said his heart must have been mending itself.

"Last year we were still on a knife edge thinking things would go wrong. But now he's out of the woods we are delighted that 2009 will be Kai's year."

A spokesman from Northern Lincolnshire and Goole Hospitals NHS Trust said they cannot comment on individual cases.

But he added: "Where abnormalities are spotted in the scans, our multi-disciplinary team will always offer prospective families the full facts and options as presented at the time.

"The team will then try to accommodate the prospective parents' wishes in the interests of mother and baby. We wish the family well."
PostPosted: Thu Jan 01, 2009 12:50 pm


My best friend's mother was told the same thing. The doctors absolutely did not want her to give birth because the baby would be defective.

She turned out healthy, and beautiful. I do like the sentiment of, "But I'm afraid I'll abort a perfectly healthy baby." I like that there's a health requirement to love your children.

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PostPosted: Sun May 31, 2009 4:52 pm


That's God for ya.
PostPosted: Sat Jun 06, 2009 10:10 pm


Wow. My mom told me something similar about one of her friends (or a distant relative I can't remember which). They were advised to have an abortion, they couldn't do it and the child turned out perfectly normal and healthy.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 17, 2009 11:24 am


My mom has a friend who when his wife was pregnant with their second son, the doctors not only advised abortion, they shoved it down their throats, but he and his wife said no every time. They had a healthy baby boy.
I hate it when doctors push something like that on you. If a woman doesn't want an abortion, don't push it like she absolutely needs to abort her baby.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:55 pm


It's a amazing how much people hate the chance of a miracle. Just goes to show you, as educated as doctors are, they are only human, and like everyone else at some time or another, just has no idea what the heck they're talking about.

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