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 Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 1:33 am
Ok...It's like this.....During new years I got some really hateful messages on a few chat's I went on...About me being Lesbian....Most of them got to me...I'm not really sure weather or not I shoud even bother.....But lately ever since I've been feeling extremely suicidal....What should I do? I've already come to accept the fact that I'm lesbian but nobody even seems to care...Well other then my friends on Gaia and everyone here.....But I just don't really know what to do anymore....I'm lost and confused again.....Help?
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Posted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 10:19 pm
Sorry, I've been ill and haven't been online for almost a full month...
I suppose the main question is really what you mean by the word "suicidal"? Are you committed to ending your life, or just feeling blue because a few people have decided they have nothing better to do than pick on you?
If you are truly intent on doing yourself real harm then you should take a deep breath and ask for help from a councilor or a doctor. Life really does have a lot to offer, but when emotions get in the way, and they can, it sometimes seem like there is nothing to live for. Please don't fall into that trap, death lasts a real long time and you don't need to start on it any sooner than you have to.
On the other hand if you are just blue, well, that's sad too, but rest assured that you will get better. Try doing things that cheer you up, that often helps, especially something that gets you physically active. All sorts of good hormones get released with activity and they really do make you feel better.
As for the people engaged in the cyberbullying and hate, I think it's safe to say it's time to drop them and move on. Don't waste your time hating them, that just burns you up inside, and don't give them the victory by being upset, they aren't worth it. You are better than that, their loss if they can't see it. You don't owe them anything, not even the time of day, if that's how they want to treat you.
And if they want to take it into the real world don't be afraid to ask for help, that's what the police are for. Also, if you can find a Gay and Lesbian support group, either on line, or in the real world, they probably have resources that can help you deal with this too. At least you'll know you aren't alone in this.
I hope this helps you a little bit.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 10:22 am
It does kinda, But they kinda have taken it into the real world T^T not exactly....hurting me, But.....people that I love and care about....They've demanded certain uhm.....acts from me and the police won't do anything because I don't know what they look like or what there name is...Or anything about them, Except that they seem to like picking on girls >.<
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