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 Posted: Sat Jan 17, 2009 11:47 pm
my life decluttering worked a little too well crying crying crying
my boyfriend broke up with me crying
i guess it just wasn't in the cards, but i'm still sad. i realize that these things happen for a reason, but that doesn't make it hurt any less sad
what helps you guys when you are sad? everything reminds me of him and i'm almost constantly thinking about him, some of it good, some of it bad. i guess i'm trying to make myself realize that i'm probably better off without him. he was really one of the only friends i had and now i just feel so lonely sad what should i do?
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Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:42 am
Well the way you stated it is your decluttering worked too well? Are you saying he is clutter? Sounds like it's a good thing. Find something to be happy about. Do all the things you like to do. Don't try to force out the memories, that will only make them flood right in. Instead try to embrace them. Smile at all of the good times, cry at the bad. Think of it as manure. Sure it feels like s**t now, but it will help you grow. (ok I stole that, but that's not the point. It works.)
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Dangerous Conversationalist
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Posted: Thu Feb 19, 2009 2:43 am
I'm sorry if that sounded cold. I hope everything works out ok. let me know if there is anything I can do.
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Posted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 11:26 am
i know that he was not good for me (i'm a leo and he's a pisces if that tells you anything) but it didn't hurt any less, i still loved him, but i'm over it now and am back in the dating pool. i gotta tell ya, dating kinda sucks sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:39 am
sweatdrop Tell me about it. Wow you seemed to have moved on quickly.
NOT THAT IT'S A BAD THING!!
Yeah, I just would have sulked and dwelled on it for ever and been the most unhappy person. You, you moved on and now your trying to find your happiness again. I admire you.
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:14 pm
Dustin_Rose sweatdrop Tell me about it. Wow you seemed to have moved on quickly.
NOT THAT IT'S A BAD THING!!
Yeah, I just would have sulked and dwelled on it for ever and been the most unhappy person. You, you moved on and now your trying to find your happiness again. I admire you. hehe sweatdrop it isn't easy, i still think of him often, but there is nothing i can do to fix anything but to move on and find my own happiness, ya know 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 4:53 am
That's awesome! ^^ I will meditate for you happiness tonight. Maybe a spell will come to me for you. I hope so, you seem like you deserve the best of happiness.
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