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 Posted: Sat Feb 07, 2009 7:07 pm
Last year I came out as a lesbian to my family and friends, and I've been totally comfortable with myself since then. Well, except for the times when I'm called a dyke or whatever, but that doesn't happen as much as it used to. So, I've been doing alright, but recently I've been having these dreams. Dreams about a guy. I was really startled when I woke up, I had never thought about this boy before. At least not in a romantic way. We've been kind of buddies since the beginning of the year, and I never felt anything but friendship towards him until now. I tend to overanalyze my dreams, so I sat in bed for a few hours thinking about him and myself, and I realized that I think I do love him. But maybe I only love him as a friend. I really don't understand what's going on. It's been a week since I've had the dream, but I still haven't told anyone. I feel like they'd call me a fake or something, or say that I was lying about being gay in the first place. Am I bisexual, gay, or straight? Do I even need to put a label on it? I'm really confused, and I need some advice.
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Posted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:19 pm
Although it's impossible to say for sure, I would say that you probably do like him. I used to have dreams about this one girl, but was in denial (only because I didn't really know if I had emotions for her or not) about it. Then, I came to face the facts that I did indeed like, and have emotions for, the girl.
As for whether you're lesbian, bisexual, or straight, I have no clue. I've been straight all my life so haven't experienced what you are completely.
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