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Weed makes life better for a lot of people. It certainly isn't THAT impairing or dangerous to his health either.

About his drug testing...depending on how it's conducted. He should look at www.testclear.com and buy a powdered urine kit, or go look online for a "Urinator." I had to take two random drug tests and passed them at my job with a powdered urine kit. You just wear briefs to work, or court or wherever, keep a vial of water in your pants, mix in the powdered urine when needed, attach the heater, and it has a thermometer strip on it to let you know when it's at a usable temperature. Pretty easy and guaranteed to work...although he might get watched on court drug tests(so the urinator might be useful there).

And he shouldn't get in THAT much trouble, depending on his age, the situation, etc. So a lot of pot smokers consider the fun they're going to have getting high worth the risk of a short period of misery that can be avoided.

And your dad probably doesn't want you getting in trouble or making him look bad(since he's a cop). Like most parents, they will tell you drugs are bad.

I think a lot of people just can't change their mind about it. I was actually just in your boyfriends shoes a week ago kinda...well. I'm single now. She sorta couldn't forgive me for doing it again after I quit for a while.

Maybe you're just overly paranoid about it? I'd tell you to just try it and you'd see why he does it all the time and why it's not that bad, but if you don't want to you don't want to(you don't even have to smoke it btw). Although, I do know a lot of people who have just done it once or a few times, if it's addiction you're worried about.

I dunno. You didn't really explain why you hate drugs.