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 Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2009 11:27 am
Have you ever been bullied?
I bet so.
Many people even out of school get bullied without even noticing it.
Tell me your most horrid story about bullying and maybe the other people that post can help out with your issues with bullying.
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Posted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 2:22 am
eh... I got bullied when I was in like kindergarten though 12th grade... but then I went to college and things got lots better because people were... *gasp* mature.
I think the worst thing to have happened was when one person kept on saying stupid things to me on the bus, she was in like 11th grade and I was in like 4th... it was horrible because she would always say i was stupid because i refused to answer her stupid questions like "have you kissed a boy" "do you smoke" "why do your clothes look like that" lets just say that... I'm not the one who pooped in the deep fryer at KFC and made people sick... that was her. LOL... who is the stupid one now.
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Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 8:29 am
I was socially awkward and took things out of context. So I wasn't bullied but I wasn't accepted very well by anyone, so I kept to myself.
Just accept everything as a learning experience and, well learn to become bigger than that and grow past the small things while keeping a check on that growing ego. If you try to think you're better than them than you are thinking the same way as your bully.
Understand that a bully feeds on two things, attention and taking power from others. Ask why.
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Posted: Mon May 25, 2009 3:09 am
I'm mostly bullied by the wannabe gangsters in my town, out to make a name for themselves.
I typically just laugh off their bullshit until they actually swing, which is, like, never, because they're mostly pussies. The one kid I've actually fought, was one that caught me off guard, in an attempt to jump me.
Funny thing is, even though he popped out of nowhere, he still couldn't lay a hand on me. I honestly didn't know I had it in me, but I blocked every punch he threw.
Neither of us won the fight... I refused to swing back. I honestly had no reason to fight him. I wasn't even angry. I was scared, due to the whole jumping out of nowhere, and swinging thing... But not angry. xD
Sure enough, the next day, like 10 people addressed me with "I heard (i forget his name) whooped your a** yesterday." Can you believe that s**t? This is just one of the reasons I can't stand wiggers. :/
Additionally, there was a fourth of July event at the town green, and I decided to tag along with a few friends. Some kid, yet again, started s**t with me... This time, I definitely could NOT have won, or even blocked his punches... It was obvious. But I happened to make a friend who was like twice my size in the same manner I made that wigger start s**t(I'll get to this in a sec, believe me, it's ********' hilarious how desperate these wigger assholes are to try and look bad-a** in front of their friends! The same thing happened to cause the previous story! Rofl!). After that wigger b***h walked away, I continued doing the same, harmless, friendly s**t I did to make him pissed in the first place(No, I really DON'T learn.). And that's how I met Jake. As he was walking by, I blurted, "Hi!" and some random compliment(I don't remember what it was.) And he responded with, "Haha, thanks. Was that wigger over there starting s**t with you for THAT?"
"Yup. Dumb as hell, huh?"
"Yeh, let's see if he does it again."
"Sweet! You can be my body guard!"
He happily agreed, and joined my group of friends for the night. I ran into the wigger again, and, sure enough, he started s**t. He tried scaring a cigarette out of me... But he backed off when he saw Jake. xD
To this day, I love saying "Hi," to random people. I've made an assload of friends this way, and it's lead to some pretty awesome experiences. I'm honestly not worried about getting into fights over it... The fun times outweigh the bad times. But it's definitely a good idea to be selective on where you do it.
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Posted: Tue May 26, 2009 6:18 am
Jahn... I just loled so hard I think my sides are going to split. xd
I don't like people who are wannabe gangsters either... being in atlanta you see a lot of that crap ... I usually just roll my eyes and laugh. But I do think that you should be careful. (I don't know exactly your situation... I hope you are extremely careful not to put yourself in a possibly deadly situation)
And good job on making friends the same way I do... LOL Always by chance and always by saying something offbeat
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Posted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 3:44 am
God, I was bullied. Always have been a bit of a loser. =P Eventually I outgrew it because I was in quite a nice area, but it happened and I was never very good at standing up to it.
Still aren't.
Just read a very good book about it though if anyone does need some help and support. =p
There's mention of a very good idea called 'Buddies' where kids within the school are trained to work with victims of bullying. Either to listen to them, play with them or keep them safe on the walk home. That sort of thing.
Quite a nice idea really!
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Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 11:42 am
Annie Anthrax God, I was bullied. Always have been a bit of a loser. =P Eventually I outgrew it because I was in quite a nice area, but it happened and I was never very good at standing up to it. Still aren't. Just read a very good book about it though if anyone does need some help and support. =p There's mention of a very good idea called 'Buddies' where kids within the school are trained to work with victims of bullying. Either to listen to them, play with them or keep them safe on the walk home. That sort of thing. Quite a nice idea really! what was the book?
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Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 4:40 pm
It's called 'Bullied' and it was written by a police officer here in the UK, it deals with domestic abuse, school bullying and workplace bullying, along with what you can do (eg. personal safety, how to deal with emotions, what the law is). I know the law aspect won't transfer overseas but there is alot of very good advice in there, even if most of it is common sense.
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Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2009 11:05 am
In 5th grade I got two boys suspended for bullying me. Ok, there are these two boys, I'll says their names are fred and george. Fred has bothered me since kindergarten. George just started public school in 4th grade. Well, a girl in class said I french-kissed George in the non-fiction section of our library (Where the HUGE windows are *idiot*) and he said we did! It made me so mad and I haven't liked him since. In P.E. he aimed any type of ball in any game at my head and laughed if I didn't duck in time! Well, in 5th grade the three of us were in seperate classes. But at lunch they got together and spit in my water, stole my lunch and tripped me. They did it just about every day. I told my mom, who transferred the information to my uncle and aunt (bikers! biggrin ). My uncle came up and with my mom addressed the principal and they were suspended for two weeks. George was taken out of public school for the rest of the year, but came back in 6th grade. The first thing he did was pour juice over my head. Fred still calls me a vampire and gets football playing jerks to cover their necks with their jackets when I walk by. But they've toned it down since 5th grade.
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 1:37 pm
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Bloody-Melons Vice Captain
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Posted: Fri Jan 01, 2010 6:35 pm
People are assfracks. : I hate bullies... I know it's pretty much IMPOSSIBLE to not judge people [its natural human behavior] , but openly making fun of them is pretty low.
-hughug-
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:15 pm
my bullying storys begin when i got into middle school 6-7th grade
there were these kids in my classes that would always say mean things to me because of how i look and how i spoke (i have a soft voice)
and it would happen every single day i went to the conselor asking for help when basically nothing really happen they still kept bullying me. but i pulled through when i got to 8th grade because i had a goal every new year i will become stronger and stand up for my self and maybe be even meaner.
but i noticed something when i got to high school all of that bullying made me lose the real kid inside me. i ask myself why do you not smile, laugh, interact with other, why are you so shy. bullying change my world completly i was who i used to be when i was in elementary. who am i i felt like i totally lose my identity but yet i still hold everything bottled up inside. at times when people are mean to i always let it slide because i believe that someone does something mean or cruel to you there will always be somthing happing to them.
i have tried to find myself again but it is going to be really hard
i've tried opening up my feelings once again little by little
and thats my story/ experience with bullying neutral
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:19 pm
6A61686Eh I'm mostly bullied by the wannabe gangsters in my town, out to make a name for themselves. I typically just laugh off their bullshit until they actually swing, which is, like, never, because they're mostly pussies. The one kid I've actually fought, was one that caught me off guard, in an attempt to jump me. Funny thing is, even though he popped out of nowhere, he still couldn't lay a hand on me. I honestly didn't know I had it in me, but I blocked every punch he threw. Neither of us won the fight... I refused to swing back. I honestly had no reason to fight him. I wasn't even angry. I was scared, due to the whole jumping out of nowhere, and swinging thing... But not angry. xD Sure enough, the next day, like 10 people addressed me with "I heard (i forget his name) whooped your a** yesterday." Can you believe that s**t? This is just one of the reasons I can't stand wiggers. :/ Additionally, there was a fourth of July event at the town green, and I decided to tag along with a few friends. Some kid, yet again, started s**t with me... This time, I definitely could NOT have won, or even blocked his punches... It was obvious. But I happened to make a friend who was like twice my size in the same manner I made that wigger start s**t(I'll get to this in a sec, believe me, it's ********' hilarious how desperate these wigger assholes are to try and look bad-a** in front of their friends! The same thing happened to cause the previous story! Rofl!). After that wigger b***h walked away, I continued doing the same, harmless, friendly s**t I did to make him pissed in the first place(No, I really DON'T learn.). And that's how I met Jake. As he was walking by, I blurted, "Hi!" and some random compliment(I don't remember what it was.) And he responded with, "Haha, thanks. Was that wigger over there starting s**t with you for THAT?" "Yup. Dumb as hell, huh?" "Yeh, let's see if he does it again." "Sweet! You can be my body guard!" He happily agreed, and joined my group of friends for the night. I ran into the wigger again, and, sure enough, he started s**t. He tried scaring a cigarette out of me... But he backed off when he saw Jake. xD To this day, I love saying "Hi," to random people. I've made an assload of friends this way, and it's lead to some pretty awesome experiences. I'm honestly not worried about getting into fights over it... The fun times outweigh the bad times. But it's definitely a good idea to be selective on where you do it. i had the same issue with wannabe gansters but all i did was try to ignore and walk away back then all i could think about is i can get through it and let this school year go by fast. i was always scared to get in fights when people wanted to fight me im like no. let them spread rumors about me wimping out but im the one who knows the truth and what really happened
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Posted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:22 pm
Shadow_n1n I was socially awkward and took things out of context. So I wasn't bullied but I wasn't accepted very well by anyone, so I kept to myself. Just accept everything as a learning experience and, well learn to become bigger than that and grow past the small things while keeping a check on that growing ego. If you try to think you're better than them than you are thinking the same way as your bully. Understand that a bully feeds on two things, attention and taking power from others. Ask why. i had some of my power taken away it was by this guy. so we were in the library and i was sitting at the computers and all of a sudden he was like aye move thats mine you or w/e he made me feel like im not a person just a ghost i was so furious but i didnt say anything but now i know that he will do it again another day and next time will will step up
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Posted: Mon Jan 31, 2011 4:50 pm
i feel a bit...whats the word...selfish, to talk about my problems. everyone else's seems way worse.
i wear all black, and i dont really care what teh jerk who bully people have to say about that. but when my friends tell me that i look like a raccoon when they are all gooped up in eyeshadow, it bugs me. then they say that i should get different shoes, because i wear these awesome studded scuffed boots every day. they also say that my music taste is weird. I guess its weird, but i listen to whatever pop music they want me to listen to, but when i want them to listen to a techno/screamo/metal song that i love, its an automatic no. then i text them twice in an hour, and they call me a ****** stalker. then they arent really the best friends either. im in the ap classes, and i get above a 4.0 gpa, so they just love copying off me. i think some of them are friends with me just because i am smart and can remember facts word for word. i have trust issues because of this. i only trust my immediate family and my best friend, who would tell me anything, and he swore that wasnt the only reason he was friends with me. so yeah, i get bullied. and screwed over by friends.
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