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Tanis Majere

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 9:14 am


hey my friend is an agnostic. believes theres a god, just wants to live life though. Tried once to get her to pray the salvation prayer. What do you guys think I should do next. Been praying for her to find God. any advice is thanked and accepted. feel free to PM me or post here.
PostPosted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:40 pm


The best thing to do for an agnostic friend is pray. Also, lay out all of hthe options for her. Let her make an informed decision. Don't just try and get her to pray the salvation prayer, she may do it without her heart into it just to please you. Invite her to events and activities, and when she is ready to reach up to God, His loving arms will enfold her.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 1:26 am


In my opinion do not even try to get her to say the salvation prayer because for me it never works. I don't believe in that and it's no where in the bible. I would try to use a biblical aproach. Use the 10 Commandments to show her the sins that she has commited. An example would be like this: "Do you think you're a good person? (they almost always say yes) Have you ever lied? What does that make you?" and ect. Then ask: "So if God judges you by the 10 Commandments, would you be innocent or guilty? Would you go to heaven or hell?" Then tell her about why Jesus died for her and how to be saved. By repenting and trusting in Jesus Christ. (not just by asking Jesus into your heart) That's about all you can do except for praying. Sorry if I sound a bit harsh on the 'salvaion prayer' but I just can't stand modern evangelism techniques. That prayer was, I think, starting to be used in the 50's. No where in the bible does it say to accept Jesus into your heart and reduce the gospel down to 4 spiritual laws. That's just asking for trouble. I know some of you may not agree but that's what I think. Oh by that way that biblical technique is called The Way of the Master. I find it very helpful when witnessing to any type of person.
PostPosted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 10:19 pm


Lots of agnostics dislike church for some reason. Find out what that reason is and show her the Biblical examples of christians forsaking not to gather together in fellowship. wink
Many have just had bad personal experiences and need a friend to get them back into a church, or maybe to lead them there for the first time.
She will hear the gospel there, but make sure you take an active role in her life- do you know if she believes in the Bible as the complete and true word of God?

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 10:13 am


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In my opinion do not even try to get her to say the salvation prayer because for me it never works. I don't believe in that and it's no where in the bible. I would try to use a biblical aproach. Use the 10 Commandments to show her the sins that she has commited. An example would be like this: "Do you think you're a good person? (they almost always say yes) Have you ever lied? What does that make you?" and ect. Then ask: "So if God judges you by the 10 Commandments, would you be innocent or guilty? Would you go to heaven or hell?" Then tell her about why Jesus died for her and how to be saved. By repenting and trusting in Jesus Christ. (not just by asking Jesus into your heart) That's about all you can do except for praying. Sorry if I sound a bit harsh on the 'salvaion prayer' but I just can't stand modern evangelism techniques. That prayer was, I think, starting to be used in the 50's. No where in the bible does it say to accept Jesus into your heart and reduce the gospel down to 4 spiritual laws. That's just asking for trouble. I know some of you may not agree but that's what I think. Oh by that way that biblical technique is called The Way of the Master. I find it very helpful when witnessing to any type of person.


I LOVE the Way of the Master technique! I use it at work! :]

@Tanis: I have a friend who is agnostic. He believes that there's some kind of higher power, but he just doesn't understand it. I haven't pushed anything on him, I let him come to me if he has questions (which he has). We've talked for like 3 hours once on the subject, and it was friendly. He was just asking me questions, wanting to know and understand.

Someone once told me the best way to preach the gospel is to treat everyone as though they're already a Christian. Show them love, tell them what God is doing in your life, etc. That's a very good approach as well, especially if you don't want to come off as if you're preaching to her.
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