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Basically here's how the story goes.

While I was at boot camp i got proof my fiancee was cheating on me with multiple girls. So we broke up.

I met this great new guy, there in training. At first he was a brother to me, then a shoulder to cry on about my ex, now, me and him are together. He asked me to marrt him on christmas eve. I agreed.

HERES THE CATCH he's stationed in Fort Campbell and I'm lucky if he contacts me once a month. Before he went to his duty station though he called every day multiple times texted said he loved me.....spoiled me rotten...the works....

I graduated training before him (his class was behind mine by three weeks) Well, those three weeks before I went back to see him we talked everyday and he got jealous of the time I spent with my guy friends back home. One of those friends is Jose whom I have had sex with twice (guy in fort campbell was my first though) Justin the one up north and me split for about two weeks when we first hooked up (this was two of the three weeks he was still in training) and me and jose had a one night stand....that turned into a two night stand. We've agreed that it was a mistake and won't happen again...

Well, me and Justin got back together again, but like i said his calls are....monthly at best. I know he loves me, he's proved it to me and even my dad a hundred times over. ( My parents love him but they hate Jose)

Now though, Jose is going through a bad time and we are getting closer. No Matter what I know its not right because Justin is the one i see myself with down the road.

I see Jose as more of a...temp distraction while Justins away (No we havent done anything while me and justin are together i wont) i'm worried though that Jose is going to try something to steal me....

how can i get him to back off (cause lately hes broken the agreement to not try anything) and at the same time not ruin the great friendship we have ?