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 Posted: Sun Mar 22, 2009 4:01 pm
I have a ex boyfriend, and he's liked me on and off ever since we broke up. I don't have any clue why. But every time he starts to like me I distance myself, right? Because I don't want to give him the idea I like him back... Well, I thought we were finally getting past the whole, him liking me thing. He had a girlfriend he'd been dating for over a year, on and off, and I thought it was safe to become good friends with him again. I mean, I'd always wanted him as a friend... So I went to Disneyland with My ex, his girlfriend, and our mutual friend. After the day he texted me and wanted advice because he, "didn't feel the same way" about his current girlfriend anymore. So I told him that its really up to him... I didn't want to get involved... The problem was I had started to feel for him a little and I knew I had to get away form him. I made the mistake of asking him if he had feelings for me.. Of course he did, anyone couldve predicted that... But I felt like it was my fault for letting myself get close to him again. Then I ust got angry at him for trying to get with me when he had a girlfriend...
I basically told him to get out of my life.
I was tired of the drama.
But I feel like I've done the wrong thing... Like I could've handled it better.
And I didn't enjoy being harsh with him.
I just felt like it needed to be done.
Now I don't have feelings for him.. But he broke up with his girlfriend.
I feel terrible for hurting her too...
I feel like such a b***h.
So was I right, or wring, in the way I handled things?
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Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 12:23 pm
"Are you serious?"
I don't really see any reason to justify getting angry at him, especially since you were the one to ask him if he still cared for you. Doesn't really seem like he was trying to get back with you, he was just answering your question. I personally think you could've handled it better. like you could've just sat him down and talked it out. I agree that something needed to be down but I personally don't think you handled it as best as you could.
"No, I am Severus."
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StickeyNoteninja Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:46 am
I agree with Miss Stickey here..
You should be careful...
Don't let your feelings explode like that...
You could have handled it better..
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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2009 4:31 am
Well, to start out with I think the way you handled things was ok. I think you feel bad about it all is because its not what your heart wants. Maybe you should remind yourself why you two were broken up in the first place and decided if you want to go back to having that same problem. If you do, then you need to start apologizing and telling people that your fallowing your heart. But if not, you need to tell him straight up to his face that you will not get involved with him agian. About wanting to be friends with him is a bit tougher. Maybe you to should only talk online or on the phone. Were attraction is not a thing. Try some of those things and then let us know how things are going!!! smile
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