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I have a friend who is 19.
He's gay and I'm his bestie who's also gay.
lately he has been acting extremely feminine and rude to people.
When asked why this shift in behavior was make he simply replies:
It's the "gay way" it's like his "excuse". He feels that if he doesn't tell people they look beneath him, usually because of style or looks, no one will. as well they shouldn't.

Is there an actual gay way?!
I kinda feel like the "gay way" is just being yourself and doing what feels right for you. What do you think?!

the "gay way" is just the picture of a steroetypical gay guy. You know, going around talking like a 13 yr old girl, and wearing skin tight clothes with florescent colors. Not that that's bad (although those gays annoy me somewhat). I act totally straight, except when a sexual convo comes up...., but still if someone doesn't really KNOW me, they'd think i was staright as a board.

no affince but your friend is just being a rude @$$ and a stuck up snob. I hate when people do that. Like there better thin everyone..well there is no "Gay way" It is your friends personality not some special code that all Gay guys have. I'm Gay and I don't treat people like crap at all. Your friend is just being a snob sorry to say.