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 Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 7:02 pm
I going to state this as simply as i can. I have a EX-GF of one of my boy that has been talking $#!7 for some time now, but i didnt care cause it was directed towards me. well this little wench decided to turn her point of aim at my GF...... well lets say Im not to happy. In about a month I have a chance to go home, well in simple terms I feel as if I should handle the situation. this other female just finds it funny that she has now found a way to push my buttons. so you can imagine that i feel like catching a flight right now back home to do a a Rick James and come back. it would make me feel better but I dunno wot I should do really. I've got so much stuff going on that an my head is swimming with my first final coming up and now this BS issue come up. just lemme know how you think i should handle it so i can have some other rational rather than a rage filled one
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Posted: Mon Apr 20, 2009 8:12 pm
Well, part of knowing what to do comes from knowing more about the situation.
For example, is this girl a friend of your BF? Or just a wandering hussie?
Also, it's very likely that this trouble is coming up now (Or bothering you so much now) BECAUSE of your final. The added stress of thinking things may not be okay at home could compromise what you are currently trying to accomplish.
What has the girl said? What was the situation? What buttons is she pushing? All of these things are worth a bit of thought before you let yourself fly home over it. It may just make the situation worse, if you show her that you are irritated.
How does your GF feel about all this?
Please answer as wholly as you can. I'd love to be able to help out. I've dealt with many a wench in my day, lol...
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 7:38 am
Ok from square one. I would call this girl a wondering hussie, she use to date my best friend and then i opened his eyes an showed him how F-ed up she was. that was about a year ago, and my friend ethan dropped her like yesterdays newpaper.then me and amanda went through a rough patch and Tyler (wench) decided she was going to try to get to me since i was the closest outlet to ethan well need less to say i palyed along cuz i knew wot was going on and when she thought she had something i cut all ties an walked away. i know for a fact before she even tried talking to me she hated my guts cause i could influence ethan as much as i can. she has seen me as a threat since she started dating ethan. everyone i hang out with has cut ties to her and moved on yet she continues to live in this little dream world of hers. so as to wot shes said its like a combo of stuff for over a year now and here recently she has been stepping her game up. i didnt care if she thrashed my name cause everyone knows me and knowns shes just running her mouth. but here of late she has been after my amanda. first of she has been making claims that she is preg., and the most recent one that has finally just pushed me over the egde is when she started compairing my amanda to ordinary whores and skanks. i guess you could say she is pushing the love of friends button, cause i care more about my friends then i do myself. i know she is reaching out for the attention and its just irks me to allow someone so low to even try to compair themselves to my friends or even me.
Amanda is scared of wot i might do when i come home. she knows i dont take kindly to people s;andering my friends. she knows i have the best personal armor against this stuff myself but my one weakness is my friends. all my friends have been a better family than my real family has been so i guess you could see why it bothers me so much. Amanda is just trying to calm me down an keep me from popping off on someone out here or doing something stupid. it just bothers me to sit by the wayside not doing anything and it pisses me off that people wanna start this behind my back when im thousands of miles from home. if i was home they dont say $#!7 cuz they are to scared to say it to my face. alot of them just fear the mention of my name cuz they have heard of me dealing with people that started stuff. and now with everything going on it makes me feel useless cuz i cant deal with this and Tyler is amused that she has found that weak link in my armor and has started twisting that dagger around.
more to come at lunch need to go to class
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 12:38 pm
ok i decided to send her a reply
wahmbulance vulgar language used wahmbulance
I have put it in white so highlight but be warned ^^^^
You sit there and write all this bullshit about growing up not playing the childish mind games yet you sit there and plague all of us with your petty bullshit cries. Every time we turn around you have a new gripe or complaint that we just pass by cause we have lives to live rather than deal with the high school nonsense. Apparently we have decided that it wasn’t worth the hassle to deal with you longer than already was. APPARENTLY YOU WEREN’T SUITED TO BE WITH ETHAN FOR HIS FUTURE, AND I SURE AS HELL WASN’T GOING TO PICK UP THE PIECES WERE HE DROPPED THEM. I don’t even have to speak to the other and know what they would say, and you are probably just going to sit there and call me a d**k or a b*****d but I don’t care. I’m tired of watching you slander my best friend and my girl friends names. So I tell you now stop the bullshit, grow up, move on, do something with the rest of your life other than trying to relive a past you will never have. People move on, people get left behind and looks like you are one of the stranded and neither Ethan nor I are coming back for you. Yeah you may have feels for us but we have our reasons. Ethan didn’t want the long distance relationship and dating a minor and being military is greatly frowned upon. You may say I didn’t care about that but his future did. I for one wasn’t going to date someone who just went out with my best friend… it’s called bros before hoes. Not say you’re a hoe, just saying that is wasn’t going to happen not even in the slightest due to you dating one of my boys. An normally you don’t see me come to confronting someone so publicly like this but since you wanted to throw all of this into the light I figured I would stoop to your playing field and tell you straight up how I feel and I know how all the others feel. As for slandering Amanda’s name stop while you’re ahead you’re not going to cause any problem there. All your going to do is piss people off and get emotionally butt hurt once again. I don’t care if you delete this reply or hide it I know you will get my point and by the time you get to this plenty of other people will have read this and see from a third person view the ******** up s**t you keep throwing out cause you are not getting you way. So continue your childish little games or grow up and get the hell out of your little dream world. So set aside the baby bottle and take a dose of reality, open your eyes and turn around there is a future rather than the dream that blew by you. Quit crying, and you can cuss and slander me all you want but know one thing I live for a future I can create rather than a dream that got shattered.
so lets see if she has the guts to reply back so far she hasnt
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Posted: Wed Apr 22, 2009 8:29 am
Hiya! I think you're reply was good Kakashi. Honestly, just let it sit there and fester in her mind. You already have the upper hand because she can't FORCE you OR your friend to be with her. There's nothing she can do!! And really, we all get talked about, so it is necessary for all of us to grow a thick skin. Bottom line, I wouldn't let what she says bother you anymore. People that know you and your Amanda are not swayed but what she says, and after you've spoken your piece, (which you have) just move on. The best revenge is living well. You and your sweetie just have a good life! You can't ever stop someone from running their mouth, not unless you want to end up in prison - and you know what? THAT'S not worth it!
There's a verse in the bible that says, "Let the ignorant remain ignorant." Just go your happy way Kakashi, and let her sit in her stink.
*hugs!*
~ beau
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Posted: Thu Apr 23, 2009 7:49 pm
Listen to the Beau. She is my mentor back as far as I can remember.
It's just as you said, she wants the attention. If she can't occupy the your mind of that of your friend by appearing good or by dating one of you (whatever she's after), then she'll want to occupy your minds by being hated. At least by gleaning attention from you both she feels as if she's not alone- someone knows that she's there.
What was it my Kaasan said to me earlier today... That history is littered with the bodies of people who had good intentions.
No one is evil in their own eyes, just lonely, scared, 'righteously' doing what they think will help them. This girl could use prayer, choose to forgive her (for your own sake, mind), and when you get home take your girlfriend out somewhere (the beach if there is one, a show, to one of your favorite hang outs...) let her know that you're home to be with her.
The best thing you can do to give yourself peace is to forgive the person who's trying to torment you, then take your girl out somewhere great and don't mention the person who's trying to ruin your time before you even have it.
make a pact with your girlfriend: we will not speak of 'whats-her-face' today.
....Johnny and I sometimes have dates where we just go to pet stores and pet all the animals... the little peaceful places are the best. =^_^=
redface redface redface
.... and I didn't even know I was being talked about in a good way!!
It's weird. I usually find these things out when I've been feeling a little lonely.
Love you guys too!
Glad it's working out Kakashi!!
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Posted: Fri Apr 24, 2009 4:02 pm
Again, i would have to agree with Beau.
You've said what you needed to say, and it was needed. first time it happens it needs to be nipped in the bud. From now on though she needs to be ignored. Once you ignore her she will either:
1. Come to her senses and stop talking nonsense.
2. Keep having personal attacks against you or your close friends. In which case you had best ride it out and ignore it, because eventually she'll get bored with no response from her attacks.
Basically she will either wise up and get on with things. Or she'll have a retort. However eventually she'll resign. Either because she'll be bored with no responses. Or she'll think that you ignored her first response because she was right or she beat you in an argument. If thats the case then let her think that. Whatever her reason is for not continuing the slander then it still means the same thing for you:
PEACE!!! Wonderful, magnificent peace!!! mrgreen
Theres my input my man, and much love biggrin
redface redface
Wow, you guys rock! ^^ And were good for my self image today!! whee
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Posted: Sat Apr 25, 2009 11:03 am
Rock on, WnX. In the bud it is! Kick her in her buds!! rofl
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Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:38 pm
well took my final and will get the results sometime this afternoon and lets see how all this BS has affected me..... hopefully i still rank #1 in my class, if not oh well just got some work to do to get back to it. man being MI can be so stressful on top of everything else.
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Posted: Sat May 02, 2009 7:24 pm
Haha!! It didn't effect you at all, apparently.
When people are groundlessly accusing you and you know it's not true, that's when that person becomes a mere source of amusement, lol.
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Posted: Sun May 03, 2009 3:46 am
i have to say im very twisted in a sence.... i like toying with peoples emotions and i thrive off watching the squirm. i guess thats why i love this job so much. love the fact that i get to make ppl into little puppets and make them dance and react the way i want just by will power. the human mind is very simple and once you find the right lever you can hit the control switch and they will be doing wot you want in no time. the training ive gotten here has shown me this, and its just gave me more tools to my arssenal already. so now i can just sit back in the shadows and toy with the little puppets that think they can step up to my level...... oh this will be a lovely show when they begin to chase themselves in circles trying to pin the next thing on me. let the amusement begin
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Posted: Sun Jun 07, 2009 10:45 pm
Im highly considering deploying to Afgan. in August cause apparently my GF has ditched me...... she hasnt answered any of my calls and i get one word text replys 90% of the time she answers and 9% of the time she just doesnt answer. the other 1% is actually a text is more than just two words so. hell if i know wots going on anymore......... this place is driving me insane an i dunno wot im going to do when i get home because some ppl have tried to stab me in the back since ive been here and right now i dunno is anyone cares back home to go to. i know i dont have a room at my parents cause they gave it away back in november an now looks like ive lost my GF as well. im going to bed before i do something stupid
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Posted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 8:06 pm
Don't go because you're avoiding dealing with something at home... not to a voilent place! There are many outposts where we need good people, you don't have to be suicidal about it.
O_o'
*worried*
What did you decide??
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Posted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 7:17 am
Seems like the majority of people doing things while you are away are just spineless. Taking advantage of a situation because someone either can't defend themaself. Sounds kinda pathetic if you ask me. Id say shrug it off but it seems a bit like too much stuff is going on to do that. Oh well, it might sound a bit dreary but sometimes i find it best to resign and admit that some stuff just sucks and you can't change it no matter how hard you try, in spite of any motivation. Just don't dwell on it or anything. Let it rest or ignore all the crap. Or find your own way to relax, things can be much more simple when you sit out in the sun with a beer or cold drink. Since it seems to be the weather for it nowardays.
Keep us posted man, love hearing from you, no matter the news.
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Posted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 8:18 pm
rather than just boiling in my own thoughts i have picked up MMA to vent steam. So needless to say someone paid even if it wasnt my intended targets..... it will do for now. An to top it of i have gotten almost a vampiric craving going on now too. Im all sorts of messed up with weird emotions and cravings right now it would make most peoples heads spin but i feel right at home with it all. As to the deployment i dont think i will do it until my number is selected. I have 19 days an a wake up until i get out of here and when i do some people will have to be careful.
*gives the friend a big hug*
Hang in there bro. Sometimes life looks bleak and awful, but then we have days that more than make up for it. I agree with the Frog, PLEASE don't go to Afganistan just because people are being stupid. There's no sense in throwing your life away .... there's so much stuff to see and do and cool people to meet!
I am sorry to hear that about your gf, I hope that either gets resolved or you find a much better one. ^^ Take care! And it's good to hear from you!
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