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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 4:35 pm


Problem Category: boyfriends/girlfriends
Problem Itself: There's this girl at school that i like but don't know how to tell her without her going off on me
People Involved: myself and Nikki
What You Think You Should Do: I plan on keeping it to myself so that I don't risk getting rejected
What you decided to do in the end: {This you fill out later on using the 'edit' button on the post. After you've gotten advice for as long as you see fit, you reveiw everyone's advice then make a decision, hopefully a good one!}
PostPosted: Mon Apr 27, 2009 10:08 pm


Well, I suppose it would depend on the relationship you already have with this girl. If she's already a good friend, try to slowly get as close as possible, then ask her if she wants to go out sometime. If she's not a friend, try to find any excude to talk to her. Get to know her better. Then follow the same as if she were a freind. If you can't find a reason, get one of your friends to become friends with her, then there's a conenection. If she says no, don't feel sad, she could really still like you, but there could be other reasons, good luck, hope other people add to mine, I'd lke to give you options.

HidingFromTheBoogeyMan
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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 28, 2009 2:03 pm


She's a good friend, but she turns 18 next month and a few of the guys at school thinks she's psyco, plus she's my band manager
PostPosted: Fri May 01, 2009 3:40 pm


she18, how old are you, and do you think she's psyco?

HidingFromTheBoogeyMan
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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Sat May 02, 2009 3:11 pm


She turn's 18 on may 18th, I turn 17 on december 2nd and I don't think she's psyco, I think she's perfect
PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2009 2:54 am


Then my suggestion is to find a good situation. Where you too are alone and not likely to be interupted, and just talk, find out about her intrests. Look for signs that she's into you. Laughing at all you jokes, brushing an arm hand or other part of her body against you are two sign. If she doesn anything your not sure about, ask me I could tell you what it probably means. After you're sure she's likes you too, find a VERY secluded place to tell her that you've liked her for some time, and still do. She what her reaction is. If your lucky She'll say the same. If you're not, She'll be polite and say no. Most likely she's not going to embaress you about it anything. When you tell you you like her, tell her she's perfect. Compliment her on her personality, or other parts about her. (This does not mean saying 'I like your boobs...'). If you do that she'll probably be ok with going out with you, but remember, even after your going out with someone, small meaningful moments are what keep a relationship together, equally coupled with the spark. Good Luck, but don't just get advice from me, ask some of your trusted friends. Preferably ones that know her. They'll always give you te best advice.

HidingFromTheBoogeyMan
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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2009 3:14 pm


we have alot of things in common, we both like slasher flicks, we both love animals, we're both werewolf obsessed, were both pervs, and we both like comic books
PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2009 9:41 pm


then i say go for it, but ask others too, not just me.

HidingFromTheBoogeyMan
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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Wed May 06, 2009 10:32 pm


also she's over a foot shorter than me
PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2009 9:31 am


is that really relevent? if you like her nothing other than that should matter.

HidingFromTheBoogeyMan
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Lenwe Surion
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PostPosted: Sat May 09, 2009 12:43 pm


honestly, it is because I prefer storter females
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