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 Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:13 pm
So I just relized how much I love candle wax,
biting,
being told what to do/ being in charge,
being tied up/blindfolded,
using a crop and whip/used on me,
I've had one "experence" with a girl and loved it twisted but she sadly moved away... sweatdrop She is the one who got me exploreing, she was my mistress.
spanked/spanking... thats all I can think of now that are pg13.
So is there a "list" somewhere of things to try? I'm really wanting to explore.. But I tend to just ask point blank, and people seem to not like talking about sex or not like my openness. I figured this guild would be good for me to learn more and talk openly.
Or any tips? Or explanation?
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:23 pm
Well you could look up bdsm on wikipedia XD lol I know it sounds lame, but you can learn all sorts of things from articles. Roleplay is always a good inspiration too, since the characters will lead you into situations you might not have thought of without them.
I'd encourage you to go slow and carefully. Don't be afraid to make your sub wait when you're playing. Anticipation is a lovely tool.
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:51 pm
Yea I've been looking up bdsm(currently am) on the web. I haven't roleplayed before.. and don't really know how... I do however want a teacher/ person to play with in real life.(since thats what I had) Though I don't see that happening any time soon. I plan on trying roleplaying. To see how it goes. Thanks for the help.
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 8:48 pm
Yeah, wikipedia is a good one; there's also a BDSM-themed wiki somewhere... Sadly I don't have the link at my disposal. But one of the big things that can help is a checklist. Which is something people who are about to enter into a D/s relationship fill out to show their limits; especially the sub. I'd link you to one but they might be NSFW. I wish you luck. Google is your friend.
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Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 12:49 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 6:07 pm
Thank you so much. I will look up all of this and will ask questions when I have them!
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 8:29 am
Besides activity checklists which can get by searching for it on web, rp is a good idea along with reading what other people write for ideas. Let your imagination flow maybe reading various things will spark an idea want to try.
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Posted: Fri Oct 02, 2009 11:25 pm
RP is always a good place to start. And reading, lots of reading. You'd be amazed what there is and you've never even thought of before. To this day I still come across things I haven't seen.
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