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 Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2009 12:41 pm
If anyone would care if I quit. No, I'm not being emo, or depressed, or suicidal, get the ******** over it.
It just seems to me that lately, myself and a few other members have been completely ignored. No one replies to our posts, and our threads quickly move to something other than the original topic, but are still somewhat related, as if to stay on-topic, but have nothing to do with the thread owner. Seems kinda a*****e-ish to me. neutral
Yeah, boohoo to me, right? So what if I feel neglected, because your problems are so much more important than mine. Well, when you think you've been doing a pretty decent job of being nice to people and you get blindsighted, it makes you question things. I've been questioning why any of you are my friends, why you give stuff to me, and why I haven't already quit this place when most of the members have been treating me as lower than the lowest thing on Earth, which I might add, is quite painful.
Don't give me that bullshit of "Internet is srs bsns, lulz", because e-relationships are based on real emotions expressed through the Internet, and there are quite a few emotionally invested people in this guild. I'm not some ragdoll you can just throw around and step on whenever you need to. I actually give a flying ******** about all of you. If something is wrong in your life, I'm genuinely concerned, because the person behind the computer is hurting, and if talking to this person behind a computer can help you, then I'm all for it. Facade or not, everyone is a real person with real emotions.
Why can't most of you respect and understand that?
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Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 9:10 am
I try my best not to ignore anyone,and I hope you don't quit, I just sometimes feel like I have nothing to add to some topics, but I know how you feel, I've felt that way at one time or another, but I just realized it wouldn't do anybody any good, and I'm not saying "get over it" because people do have feelings, and sometimes they feel like the world, or in this case, the guild would be better off without them, but please don't quit, whenever somebody quits, it kind of brings everyone down, sorry I can't help more, and I hope you start feeling better.
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Posted: Wed Jul 29, 2009 10:25 pm
Sorry to hear that Myst...
I can't speak for other people, but i try not thinking that they're purposely ignoring my posts. (they just might be though) I just keep pressing on.
I don't have a secure source of net, so I'm rarely on, so i wouldn't have been able to notice this much. But i can tell you i do feel concerned about people as well when they bring up a problem that's eating them.
If you'd like someone to just chat with, you can try emailing me at my hotmail or just drop me a PM here.
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Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 10:57 pm
Wow I totally feel for you... I feel totally ignored actually haha. Cuz everyone is in their prommieguildiesskype thing and no one talks to me? No one has PMed me for a REAL convo for nearly a year now. No one talks to me first on MSN, I have to TRY and talk to people. And I can tell more than a few people in this guild don't like me so idk? The only person who tells me to get on MSN is PIF/BAWHS/EHHDOLF and fmlfmlfml.
Hardly anyone replies to my posts and crap yeaaah ppl can call me butthurt. BUTTHURT
I actually tallied all the time ppl have quoted/replied to my posts ever since a few days after i joined tloem again. that'd be hmm 79 out of 600+ posts?
Myst I care for you a lot. I'm like, gonna cry now wtf@self
I could repost the same thing that you said and it'd be entirely accurate
Sorry to anyone who actually likes me but I'm so sensitive and I hate drama. Thanks to those who've supported me I guess <3_<3
Now i wanna take a break from tloem. Or another 10-month hiatus.
TL;DR? -> eff u guys ;]
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 12:57 am
Rumors Of Blue Whales Wow I totally feel for you... I feel totally ignored actually haha. Cuz everyone is in their prommieguildiesskype thing and no one talks to me? No one has PMed me for a REAL convo for nearly a year now. No one talks to me first on MSN, I have to TRY and talk to people. And I can tell more than a few people in this guild don't like me so idk? The only person who tells me to get on MSN is PIF/BAWHS/EHHDOLF and fmlfmlfml. Hardly anyone replies to my posts and crap yeaaah ppl can call me butthurt. BUTTHURT I actually tallied all the time ppl have quoted/replied to my posts ever since a few days after i joined tloem again. that'd be hmm 79 out of 600+ posts? Myst I care for you a lot. I'm like, gonna cry now wtf@self I could repost the same thing that you said and it'd be entirely accurate Sorry to anyone who actually likes me but I'm so sensitive and I hate drama. Thanks to those who've supported me I guess <3_<3 Now i wanna take a break from tloem. Or another 10-month hiatus. TL;DR? -> eff u guys ;]
No, no 10-month hiatus. D:
I like you Rummy, you're a cool chick. cool I think that to get anywhere around here, you just have to throw what weight you DO have around, an I don't mean whoring yourself to the guild by offering free art, because you'll only have their respect in that aspect. Only reason people know me is because I anonymously gifted Gale about 10 presents last year. XD It was fun, but I honestly feel I'd be in the same position I was in before all of that if I hadn't done something and have it turn into something huge. I'll try to help you whenever I can, ok? <3
@Draco: I know you're not one of those who says, "get over it", but there are quite a few who do, and it's really annoying. I try not to show it in the main forum, but I really think it's a bunch of bullshit to tell someone to get over it when they themselves can't get over something. Hypocracy is a huge pet-peeve of mine, and I don't associate with people who knowingly do it on a regular basis. I don't think half the guild is aware of when members quit, because I'll be on MSN talking, and sometimes in a group chat with guildies, and there'll be people who've JUST found out who was the latest person to quit, and by the time I tell them, they've rejoined. Glad to know someone would miss me if I did decide on it. I don't think I will in the near future, but sometimes, it's tempting.
@Ruisu ('cause that new name is tl;dr): Ah. Dan (Yagatan) had that problem last year, except he was on dial-up, and just couldn't post as often as the rest of us. I'm sure it's just some moodiness from being cooped up in a small apartment for weeks on end with nothing to do but go online or watch TV, when I'm not sleeping. Though, with all honesty, I wrote that with the intent of speaking how I feel, but it ended up being more about the other members who feel even more neglected than I do, like the three of you. I love all you guys like family (well, those who don't treat me like s**t), and I do have concerns for everyone.
If any of you ever feel like talking, you can PM/IM me, or I can PM/IM you. Rumors. ;D
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 2:08 am
Nobody ignores you Myst.
The problem is you've become enemies with a lot of people.
Everywhere I've seen you go drama has followed, Whether through no fault of your own or otherwise.
When you get that kind of reputation people tend to avoid you.
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 11:49 am
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Posted: Fri Jul 31, 2009 7:43 pm
Why do members get bent out of shape when it turns out they aren't as likeable as they thought they were?
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 11:43 am
The Censorship Fairy Nobody ignores you Myst. The problem is you've become enemies with a lot of people. Everywhere I've seen you go drama has followed, Whether through no fault of your own or otherwise. When you get that kind of reputation people tend to avoid you.
If I'm enemies with a lot of people, then I'm oblivious to it. I thought I got along pretty well with almost everyone. =/ I don't see drama everywhere I go, but thanks for making me feel like s**t. People avoid me, eh?
@Amish: Oh, ******** to you. I'm not bent out of shape, but if you're gonna sit there and insist I am, then yeah, I'm going to get that way because nothing annoys me more than being told I'm feeling one way when I'm not. I get that I'm not as liked as I once was (whenever the ******** THAT was).
But Censor seems to think it's because I bring drama wherever I go, and that honestly makes me feel sick to my stomach, because I detest pointless drama.
But I think it's pathetic of this guild as a whole to ignore how their members feel. You can't deny it, because every one of you is guilty of it. Even I am, because I have to admit, I can't keep up with everyone at the same time, but at least I put forth some damn effort. I at least try to be nice to everyone, and those who aren't nice back get the exact same treatment from me.
It's like that little golden rule, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Basically, be nice to them, and they'll be nice to you. If you're a d**k to them, they'll be a d**k to you.
I was raised to consider the feelings of others, which is why I can't be a heartless d**k like most of this guild. I'm sorry, I just can't. So, ******** me sideways if that means I don't belong here, because I think most of you are pretty awesome, but the way some of us are treated by others... it's just unnecessary.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 4:28 pm
I would die a little inside if I never got to talk to you again. If you quit the guild, there would still be MSN and such, but it wouldn't feel the same. I decided it would be best to tl;dr the rest of the posts, and after skimming over them, I'm glad that I'm choosing to ignore them, since they are hurtful and mean.
"I think most of you are pretty awesome, but the way some of us are treated by others... it's just unnecessary."
That sums up my feelings about this guild.
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Posted: Mon Aug 03, 2009 8:31 pm
As much as you're trying to say this is not a cry for help and that you're just making a statement and seriously considering leaving, realistically this type of post will always come off initially as "I'm butthurt because I'm not being paid attention to, so I'm gonna post about it on livejournal." Not to say that I'm of that opinion entirely. This isn't livejournal, which is the first reason why I'm not of the aforementioned mentality.
Honestly, I have to agree that there is some validity to the claim of you being nearly synonymous with tloem drama. Unfortunately, in tloem, it's all too oten that people believe all drama is 100% evil-- which is simply not true. The reason for the Myst-Drama correlation is that you put your heart into everything. You add emotion and personal convictions to everything you do. That's something to be respected, but it's not socially tactful, especially on the internet. =/ Therefore, others tend to relate your expression to problematic drama.
Personally, I have no "beef" with you. I'm not gonna tell you to "gtfo," and I'm also not going to tell you "ilu" to make you "stay." I think your "membership" to the "guild" is something for "you" to "decide" for "yourself." I don't "mean" to sound "mean," but maybe this "crossroads" is "something" you "ought" to decide "on" outside of "the" medium that's "bothering" you.
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Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2009 12:38 pm
Kiriel Narith As much as you're trying to say this is not a cry for help and that you're just making a statement and seriously considering leaving, realistically this type of post will always come off initially as "I'm butthurt because I'm not being paid attention to, so I'm gonna post about it on livejournal." Not to say that I'm of that opinion entirely. This isn't livejournal, which is the first reason why I'm not of the aforementioned mentality.
Honestly, I have to agree that there is some validity to the claim of you being nearly synonymous with tloem drama. Unfortunately, in tloem, it's all too oten that people believe all drama is 100% evil-- which is simply not true. The reason for the Myst-Drama correlation is that you put your heart into everything. You add emotion and personal convictions to everything you do. That's something to be respected, but it's not socially tactful, especially on the internet. =/ Therefore, others tend to relate your expression to problematic drama.
Personally, I have no "beef" with you. I'm not gonna tell you to "gtfo," and I'm also not going to tell you "ilu" to make you "stay." I think your "membership" to the "guild" is something for "you" to "decide" for "yourself." I don't "mean" to sound "mean," but maybe this "crossroads" is "something" you "ought" to decide "on" outside of "the" medium that's "bothering" you.
Your last paragraph makes no sense whatsoever. I don't get why you put quotations every other word, but whatever.
The only reason you think the drama is because I put my heart into everything I do, and I add emotion and conviction to everything. Those should NEVER be bad things. I don't give a ******** if it's the Internet. Some people need to know there's a real human being with real emotions on the other end, and if you can't understand that, then you can suck my non-existent d**k. Seriously. You can't honestly expect to have friends if you can't be open and emotional around them. It doesn't work that way, and you sure as hell can't have a relationship that way, either.
In all honesty, I did start this thread with the intent of expressing my depression towards most of the guild for the recent bout of ignoring me, but then I realized that I as a person, am nothing compared to the whole of people in this guild who are treated worse than I, and there's quite a few of scorned members who, if they DID quit, would have no where else to go on Gaia, even if relativley no one here talks to them.
So sue me if I have emotions, and I try to be nice to everyone. What this thread has taught me is that no matter what kind of person I am, I can't be myself in this guild. I'm not allowed to "feel" things other than get back in the kitchen and let's have sex. Sure, all the sexist and racist bullshit is supposed to be a joke, but there's actually quite a few of us who are greatly offended by those jokes, and just refrain from saying anything. I, for one, am tired of not being able to be myself in the guild without having some s**t-storm follow me.
Be rest-assured, I don't LIKE having drama follow me, and it wouldn't follow me if the rest of you would just get off my back about s**t. I mean, seriously.
I know I'm a nice person, and I know I have a heart, but the rest of the guild should learn that "internet is srs business" as a joke isn't entirely true. If you honestly believe that, then you can go back to 4chan's /b/ and live it up there.
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