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 Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 11:09 am
Every time I hear one of my friends drink or smoke I just get depressed and crap.. I used to not care for it from 2 years ago but now they continue to drink all the time & smoke ciggerates and pot. I wish I can just stop worrying from my friends :/
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 12:59 pm
Suffering from Depression my self I know that it can be extremely easily triggered. But if you're worried about your friends with there Smoking and Drinking and whatnot, coupled with any other hardships you currently have airing around the depression could just be anxiety or stress, or in a more serious case those things could be causeing depression in any stages. Not Being a doctor I can only say what has been said to me regarding myself but in all likelyhood I would say that having friends that are so content doing the things they're doing and you caring about them on top of them not realising you are so worried, it is rather likely you hit it on the head with being worried about them. Though I must add that being worried and depressed are two very different things so maybe you're not depressed but it is the only word you could fit with how you feel.
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Posted: Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:46 pm
You coudl try explaining your feelings to them, and express your concerns. They might not be aware of what you're going through.
If they refuse to change their behaviour, then you could ask them to not do those things around you, or you could make the move and spend less time with them. Or find new friends?
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