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iSoubi Agatsuma
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 10:12 am


Hey I know I am a vice captain and all but I need a little advice.

Has you ever been in a house you felt not welcome before? I mean daily in and out I been living at my family home for 19 years and everyday it gets worse I feel like I am not welcome here. I been searcing a way to prove my dad I am ready to move out for I don't have to deal with this drama. I had bipolar for 5 years and all the screaming and yelling it makes it worse for my bipolar cause of my mood swings. Plus I can't let my stress level be high to start having anxity attack. So my question is besides going over friends house and music what should I do?
PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 6:14 pm


Akari Rymuiko
Hey I know I am a vice captain and all but I need a little advice.

Has you ever been in a house you felt not welcome before? I mean daily in and out I been living at my family home for 19 years and everyday it gets worse I feel like I am not welcome here. I been searcing a way to prove my dad I am ready to move out for I don't have to deal with this drama. I had bipolar for 5 years and all the screaming and yelling it makes it worse for my bipolar cause of my mood swings. Plus I can't let my stress level be high to start having anxity attack. So my question is besides going over friends house and music what should I do?



be patient and mature and talk to your father

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 7:22 pm


Smack your Dad if he annoys you, that'll teach him.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 18, 2009 9:35 pm


just talk to your dad and tell him your ready to be an adult. explain your reasons.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:06 pm


tell him you are an that your are mature and the way you feel is not something that will pass
PostPosted: Sun Sep 20, 2009 2:41 am


Since you have been living there for 19 years I guess you're at least 19 XD

So you don't really need your dad's permission, you are legally not a minor anymore. Get a job, move out, problem solved biggrin

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iSoubi Agatsuma
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 3:18 pm


Let you all know I am not 19 I am 20
PostPosted: Sat Sep 26, 2009 5:03 am


Akari Rymuiko
Let you all know I am not 19 I am 20

Then it is definitely your decision.

You didn't mention what you do, are you a student? Or do you work already? In either case, get your finances covered and then just move out. Everyone does eventually, and it's your life, not theirs.

"Goodbye, and thanks for all the food!" biggrin

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