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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 11:15 am


* No religon will be forced on you here, but its always open to be talked about

I love going to church and I love the idea of raising my daughter in the name of God and I was wondering if I was the only one >.>'''
PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 5:36 pm


I love including my daughter in our pagan rituals, and teaching her about the goddess myself. We are wiccan and when she's older I hope to teach her about as many religions as I can, I love religion in general. I'm one of those "there is no right religion but there is a right path for everyone that meets their general and personal belief system" ^_^

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 23, 2009 8:56 pm


I wasn't brought up with any religion at all really. My mom would take us to church when something bad happened or something really good. I think she felt guilty either way.
I'm taking a world religions class right now so when my son is old enough I can offer some insight into them. My husband and I have discussed me going with him if he wants to try out church or any meeting like that. What I believe in is more like pieces of different religions that I like, (reincarnation, female god, karma) but I don't see any reason why he should believe what I do. I like being able to let him choose for himself.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 7:25 am


to me the bible is not a religion, its a way of life like being a vegan. Now I understand that it would be....wrong I guess to MAKE her be a christan but the way I see it I will go to church every sunday for the rest of my life and as long as she lives in my household she will take part in family happenings BUT I won't make her belive anything she doesn't want to. I don't think asking 2 hours out her week it too much to ask for. On the same note I'm not overly zealous and I know things like sex before marriage is almost unheard of in todays people so instead I'll teach her to value her body and to value sex. That it isn't somthing to give away like candy. She should save it for the man/women she truely cares about and not the frist BF/GF to ask for it

Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 24, 2009 1:31 pm


I don't think it is at all wrong to expect your daughter to participate in going to church. I think that the values taught there are important and it would give her a ready made support system.

The way my mom only participated when it "meant" something to her made me feel like it wasn't "real" to me. To me it is a choice, but to many people, it's not. I don't feel mad at them for it. In some ways I wish that I had had that kind of group to turn to when things happened.

I certainly don't think it's a bad thing or wrong, I think that we all have different experiences with religion that we pass on to our children.
PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 5:00 pm


One of the reasons I left my boyfriend of 6 years was because he refused to let me raise any children we had with religion of any kind. I'm a Catholic, and I'm pretty proud of it. My mother is pagan, and I think that's fine too. But I can't teach my children that there is nothing out there. It's a huge deal to me. But I never push it on others. Faith in my family is tradition, so my kids are the only ones I'll nag into going to church. If they chose for themselves later not too, that's fine too.

When I agreed to go out with my husband I had known him for 2 years. He's a Catholic too, and that was the reason I chose to date him. I wanted to only try with like minded people. And I'm glad I did. Our daughter, Grace was baptised in my church and my son, when he's born, will be too.

Faith, regardless of the denomination, teaches love and really enforces good morals. I'm sure that these can be taught outside of church too, but having faith in God gives my life some meaning and purpose other than just being an animal and breeding to continue my species.

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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U
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PostPosted: Fri Sep 25, 2009 7:53 pm


II Marie Antoinette II
One of the reasons I left my boyfriend of 6 years was because he refused to let me raise any children we had with religion of any kind. I'm a Catholic, and I'm pretty proud of it. My mother is pagan, and I think that's fine too. But I can't teach my children that there is nothing out there. It's a huge deal to me. But I never push it on others. Faith in my family is tradition, so my kids are the only ones I'll nag into going to church. If they chose for themselves later not too, that's fine too.

When I agreed to go out with my husband I had known him for 2 years. He's a Catholic too, and that was the reason I chose to date him. I wanted to only try with like minded people. And I'm glad I did. Our daughter, Grace was baptised in my church and my son, when he's born, will be too.

Faith, regardless of the denomination, teaches love and really enforces good morals. I'm sure that these can be taught outside of church too, but having faith in God gives my life some meaning and purpose other than just being an animal and breeding to continue my species.


Thats why I turned to it, I've only been a "real" church goer for about 2 years. My life was...rough and I hated waking up everyday but then I started dating the guy that is now my husband and he brought me to church every sunday. I liked the "family". I liked how when I walked in everyday I got smiles and hugs and nothing but love. I even loved that when I turned up pregnant BEFORE marriage they didn't even give me one odd glance, I got nothing but "congrats" and "welcome to the familys". I even teach children's church now. God has shown me a love I havn't even gotten from my mom and dad (long story, we don't get along)
PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 8:38 am


My daughter will be raised in an open, spiritually neutral environment; she will be free to look into and pursue any religion she chooses, without her parents trying to influence her.

To me, religion is a very personal thing, and I find raising children in any religion to be immoral. It denies them the opportunity to explore their own spirituality for themselves, and I'd hate to limit my child in that way.
(No offense intended to anyone here that will raise their children religiously, this is just my personal opinion.)


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 1:11 pm


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» Loving being a mommy 24/7.

When I was growing up, I was taken to a Christian Church every Sunday. I never considered myself to be a part of that religion though. I have more of an interest in Paganism, though I've never really gotten around to researching it and getting involved.
I'm really more into nature and herbalism. I'm not sure what form of Paganism that's referred to as though.



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 28, 2009 1:43 pm


They have a link for pegen parents on the front page, go there and ask qustion or post somthing here asking qustions I know we have atleast one pegen mom here too. I have no idea how that stuff works ether lol

Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U
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4andARobot

PostPosted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 8:39 am


Tute Sweet
My daughter will be raised in an open, spiritually neutral environment; she will be free to look into and pursue any religion she chooses, without her parents trying to influence her.

To me, religion is a very personal thing, and I find raising children in any religion to be immoral. It denies them the opportunity to explore their own spirituality for themselves, and I'd hate to limit my child in that way.
(No offense intended to anyone here that will raise their children religiously, this is just my personal opinion.)


That sounds like how I'm raising my son as well. Have you found anyone who is negative about the idea?
PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 7:23 am


4andARobot
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My daughter will be raised in an open, spiritually neutral environment; she will be free to look into and pursue any religion she chooses, without her parents trying to influence her.

To me, religion is a very personal thing, and I find raising children in any religion to be immoral. It denies them the opportunity to explore their own spirituality for themselves, and I'd hate to limit my child in that way.
(No offense intended to anyone here that will raise their children religiously, this is just my personal opinion.)


That sounds like how I'm raising my son as well. Have you found anyone who is negative about the idea?


Yes, but it's mostly my in-laws.
Mind you, Terry's parents, his brother and his wife b***h and whine about how terrible it is that we don't practice their religion anymore all the time anyway, so it's nothing new.

How about you?


Tute Sweet


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Alex Treveney

PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 10:57 am


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» Loving being a mommy 24/7.

When I was growing up, I was taken to a Christian Church every Sunday. I never considered myself to be a part of that religion though. I have more of an interest in Paganism, though I've never really gotten around to researching it and getting involved.
I'm really more into nature and herbalism. I'm not sure what form of Paganism that's referred to as though.



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commonly referred to as "green witches" herbalismn and nature is a big part of most pagan religions, my major is wicca, but a lot of people seperate into little groups within the religion (mostly inspired by books at places like chapters) like green witches, kitchen witches, solitary practicionaries, ect they are just a small part of that person, kinda like their major. Like my major in wicca is parenting. and villian is right, even if you're just curious about paganism feel free to join our pagan parents guild. We welcome all respectful and active members.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 01, 2009 12:17 pm


Tute Sweet
4andARobot
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My daughter will be raised in an open, spiritually neutral environment; she will be free to look into and pursue any religion she chooses, without her parents trying to influence her.

To me, religion is a very personal thing, and I find raising children in any religion to be immoral. It denies them the opportunity to explore their own spirituality for themselves, and I'd hate to limit my child in that way.
(No offense intended to anyone here that will raise their children religiously, this is just my personal opinion.)


That sounds like how I'm raising my son as well. Have you found anyone who is negative about the idea?


Yes, but it's mostly my in-laws.
Mind you, Terry's parents, his brother and his wife b***h and whine about how terrible it is that we don't practice their religion anymore all the time anyway, so it's nothing new.

How about you?



When we decided to let him chose and we didn't baptise him, people were weirded out. My husband Matt's parents have both passed and I only have my mom left and she's always been wishy-washy on religion so no problems there. I just find that it's co-workers who think it's strange or bad.

4andARobot


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:38 am



My MIL is really avid on taking our children to church. We are so wrong for not letting them learn of God, etc. Odd thing is, she does not hound my husband and I personally to go. My family grew up moron, than no church, than Baptist. I hardly remember anything from when I was a child. I believe all children go to heaven, so what is the point in making them learn about God? My 6 y/o was christian at my mom's church, and that is the church I love. My older son was always with me in the services, and when he cried, the pastor would just say "Are not children just great". It just happens to be 4 1/2 hours away. We have been talking about going back to church (Christan) but it has been the hardest decision on my part. So, hope you ladies do not mind a question.

No matter what religion you're in, most have services or gatherings. What do you do with your babies?
I'm a nursing mom, and I still feel nervous leaving my baby alone with anyone, let alone people I do not know.

Any advice is welcome.


Also, when my children get old enough, they need to decided on their own, what they believe in. I can be a strong influence in their life, teach them wrong from right, but I can't make them follow what I believe in.
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