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 Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 3:58 pm
Hi! So I was invited to this guild, Im not pregnet nor do I have a baby but lately all Ive been able to think about is having a baby.
Right now Im only 18 but I do live away from home in a nice house with my boyfriend who is 21. Also if we did have a baby we would have loads of support from his family who lives all around us. His moms retired and lives right next door. Shes used to taking care of my boyfriends niece his names Brandon by the way.
ANYWAY...heh I keep looking up information on how to get pregnet and like the best time to and all that stuff. We both want a son and were always playing "mommy and daddy" to our pets haha I know were dorks. It just feels so right, Im so ready to be a mom I mean sometimes I notice Im treating Brandon like a kid which is wrong. Just glad he hasn't relized that lol.
We both work full time and even though he didn't go to college hes taking some computer courses that are ending really soon so hell have a better paying job come really soon. Im also in the middle of getting my assoicates online. Im not really worried about if Ill be able to handle work, school, and a new baby along with taking care of the house, I know I can do that.
I just dont know what Brandon feels >< Hes running for office and I dont think he really needs that extra stress. I wanna talk to him about it but im afraid that if I do its going to scare him. I mean were not married yet but i feel like we should be before a baby. But we talk more about having kids then being married just what it will be like when we get old.
I know I said a lot I just feel so conflicted and really need someone to talk to >< I also hope I put this in the right form I think I did I did a lot of looking around haha
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Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 8:30 pm
How long have you been seeing him?
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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U Captain
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Posted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 5:38 am
Well to me personally you have to ask him and make sure hes on bourd 100% because if hes not all of those things will be hard but adding a baby on top will be near impossible
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Posted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:43 pm
A little over a year now. v.v
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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U Captain
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Posted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 5:55 am
Hm ok well sit down with him, talk about all the important things to you and how a baby would affect that. Talk about the pors and cons and put alot of thought into. You'll be surprised by what a baby can change
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