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 Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 11:43 am
Alright, there's this girl in my class, and she likes me, and I like her...
But she has a boyfriend she says she loves aswell!
Also we are best friends!
Please help me!
Or give me advice on making her see that i'm better for her!
Thanks!
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Posted: Tue Dec 06, 2005 4:04 pm
To young... To clueless... I might not be much help in these situations, BUT... If that were to happen to me (As in from the girls point of veiw...) it would be very akward, perhaps you should maybe make sure she really likes you?
neutral In these situations, I am clueless... Make me feel so small...
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Posted: Wed Dec 07, 2005 6:46 pm
First of all: Jaz, chill. razz You're fine. heart
Secondly, I'd just go with whatever works. I mean, she has to realize that chances are her boyfriend won't be too happy if she gets another boyfriend, so if I were you, I'd talk to her and see what you both can do. I mean, worst comes to worst, you can wait it out until her and her boyfriend break up...
But, until then, don't ruin your friendship--trust me, relationships CAN and WILL do that.
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Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 3:15 pm
My brother said go for it, but he also thinks he's a pimp... So, don't trust him... He remains betsest friends with all of the girls he breaks up with, in fact, he car-pools with a girl he recently dumped...
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 1:42 pm
(Hey look guyses!! I'm alive!!)
(anyway)
Ok, I've seen this MANY MANY times before. I've actually been in that situation. Here's what happened to me...
I liked this guy. (of course) He was my best friend. (also of course) He had a girlfriend. (must I keep saying this?) Anyway, I liked him and I told him. He started to like me... then, when he finally broke up with his girlfriend, Karma came back to haunt me or something, because I got pulled out of school because I had a kidney stone (very painful I might add) and we eventually ended up breaking up two weeks later. Then, the next time I saw him, we were at total war with each other. I didn't actually start to be his friend again until.... nine months later or something.... and we still aren't best friends anymore... and that was like four years ago..... So I say, forget it and move on... but it's your call...
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Posted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 6:16 pm
Yeah; you might wanna go along with Sarah. I mean, really; if she's your best friend, do you want to risk it? D: heart
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Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 12:11 pm
I'd just wait. Be patient.
It's the girl's choice, she's the one stuck in the middle of this. So you'll have to trust her with her decision. She'll know who she likes more after a while. So yeah, just wait it out and continue being her friend just like things have always been.
And although I doubt you concidered this.
Don't let her cheat on her boyfriend
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 4:49 pm
Me been in ze same situation. Sort of...Okay so I sit next to this girl in sxience, and she confessed that she liked me, and I told her I liked her, and then that same day, my friend asked her out, AND he knew I liked her!!! mad But, A few weeks later someone told me that this girl in meh band class who moved to where I live, moved here from where I used to live!!! We were already friends, and had a lot of common intrests, So I asked her to the Spring Social at meh school. We have been going out since. I guess what I'm trying to say is: Let it play itself out, If it is meant to be, it will be. If not, there are other skittles in the bag.
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 7:20 pm
I_Write_SinsNotTradgedies Me been in ze same situation. Sort of...Okay so I sit next to this girl in sxience, and she confessed that she liked me, and I told her I liked her, and then that same day, my friend asked her out, AND he knew I liked her!!! mad But, A few weeks later someone told me that this girl in meh band class who moved to where I live, moved here from where I used to live!!! We were already friends, and had a lot of common intrests, So I asked her to the Spring Social at meh school. We have been going out since. I guess what I'm trying to say is: Let it play itself out, If it is meant to be, it will be. If not, there are other skittles in the bag.
I want to EXPAND on this because I was helping with this situation.
It all works out.
Sometimes you end up with someone else,
But it ends in the best way possible.
((Even if you need a little HELP from a friend.
WHICH you VERY conveniently forgot to mention here,
Cheez.))
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 4:49 pm
I am just new to this guild...so I basically don't know anyone of you, so I can't like go over and say comforting words. So I can only state my opinion and hopefully I do not hurt anyone. >.<
Anyways...think about it this way- no offense to that girl don't get me wrong- I feel that if you says she likes you but at the same time...she has a boyfriend and says that loves him as well...don't you think she is not that worth it for? I mean, if girl has a boyfriend maybe she should actually stay devoted to that one guy.
Okay, it is true that girls are just guys basically because we will awe over hot guys and cute guys just like the same way guys would over girls. So I am not saying you aren't a cute guy because you just might be but...I am not saying that it is wrong to chase for a girl you like but it'll hurt both sides if you go for a girl that has a guy already. You will be like...*sorry really* the third person. I am not saying you shouldn't love her anymore because you should but don't start a whole commotion and fuss over her since she already has a girlfriend. Just say friends and maybe if she truly loves you and don't like the other guy..she'll break up with him and be with you. That'll be a happy ending but for now don't break anyones heart because it is just not fair to others.
So don't go and kill yourself out there for a girl...it is not worth it because some girls are just not. I am not saying all girls. But basically some, which is hypocritcal of me since I am a girl...but anyways I am just saying there are those that are worth the time and patience but others that are simply...even if you lose them it is not worth the tears.
Well...that is my point of view, I am truly sorry if I caused any problems, maybe I am too young to judge but that is how I feel about those situations because...I do have a friend that went through that before, so I do have a little feedback to this problems.
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Posted: Mon May 08, 2006 2:52 pm
I totally agree with Kiwi.
If she says she likes you too, then how can you trust her? Trust is the cornerstone of every relationship, and if you know that she broke trust with her previous boyfriend, how can you expect it from her? Also, think of how he feels. I'd have a talk with her and stuff. I mean, why do you like her exactly, anyways?
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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 7:25 am
I have to say, I also agree with the two posts above me. But then again, if you do go with her, how do you know the same thing won't happen to you? What if she starts likeing [sp?] some other guy that also likes her and the same thing happens? But also, what if you do get with her, then when the time comes, and you or she breaks up with you/her, then do you want to risk losing a good friend? o:
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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 10:22 am
if she said she love her bf then y did she say like u,u mean LIKE as a friend?if u mean LIKE as in love then i think she's a twofaces
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Posted: Sat Jul 22, 2006 5:58 pm
Time Eater Alright, there's this girl in my class, and she likes me, and I like her... But she has a boyfriend she says she loves aswell! Also we are best friends! Please help me! Or give me advice on making her see that i'm better for her! Thanks! How would you like it if someone did that to you?You cant break them up!That is mean. Be nice and be friends.It is her desision who she likes best. And dont suck up so she will decide for you.
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Posted: Wed Aug 23, 2006 4:34 am
she has to choose, we know who she likes, but who does she love? thats the queastion
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