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Posted: Thu Dec 10, 2009 9:35 pm
Well, i'm sure we guys are going to LOOOOOOVE this topic - Obvious sarcasm.
Haha xD
Now to the topic
So anyways, i was wondering if any other guys here share my HATRED for condoms? I know the whole STD deal and i know the whole pregnancy deal and i've got answers....
1: I'm clean. You're clean. Why a condom?
2: I'M GAY. NO CHILDREN FCKTARD.
So why do people still insist on using them? Haha xD
I've only had unprotected sex for the majority of my sex life (only about a year now, haha only 14) but when my boyfriend just HAPPENS to say "condom" i pretty much die a little inside Dx
You can't even stay hard while putting them on, and when you're actually having sex you can't feel a damn thing. For guys who can c** using condoms, i give you kudos. For it is beyond my abilities XD
In truth, i don't care that much - i simply want to get a conversation going. We need a couple more up on here =D
Oh, and Trojan Ecstasy condoms are bullshit. I admit, their a little better then the average one. But not nearly as good as teh real thing :3
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 9:38 am
my fiance and i use condoms because of the risk of having kids. i hate them. he doesnt seem to mind them but i hate how akward they make everything. we have had unprotected sex once and it was so much better. but i cant get on the pill so we are stuck with condoms at the moment
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Real President of Nothing
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 12:59 pm
You can have a little fun with putting the condom on your guy. There are sexy ways to do it.
Well, as long as you and your partner get regularly tested and SHOW it to each other, I don't see a problem. Just don't rely on their word that they are clean. Unfortunately people lie.
For straight/bisexual people they need condoms for babies and STDs. The pill and condoms works the best for preventing babies. Also if you just rely on a condom and it breaks, go with plan B.
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 4:49 pm
Well being a virgin I can't give an opinion on if the suck or not,but I share your views on if both of us are clean and all.I still have to be careful about the prego thing though (at least until I get the operation XD I'm a MtF)
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 6:24 pm
Samantha478 Well being a virgin I can't give an opinion on if the suck or not,but I share your views on if both of us are clean and all.I still have to be careful about the prego thing though (at least until I get the operation XD I'm a MtF) froma girl's point of view they suck. ive honestly got no idea how on earth my fiance is able to deal with them. but until we decide on another form of birth control that doesnt use horomones we are stuck with them.
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Posted: Fri Dec 11, 2009 7:55 pm
One reason for condom is that you think you might know your partner but you are not 0 sure on them.
I have only had unprotected sex with one of my partners and that was because I was on the pill / ring (I switched while we were dating) and we had been dating for well over a year and then some so there was trust and STD testing. I still managed to have a pregnancy scare when on the pill. Pills are not 0 but doing condoms and the pill normally does a nice job of anti-babies. So on the not so safe days we kinda did double protection.
"Pulling out" is only 75% effective and you need a lot of trust in your partner. Watching days / safe days ... takes really knowing your cycle and still is only about 70% effective (or less I forget excat percentages).
Ummm the gay thing you can still give STD's and very very easily especially without a condom. My one gay friend who is very sexually active gets tested for STD's and HIV every three months. Girls are the same in fact worse because you have to use dental dams and those things are kind a pain in the butt.
Me I really do not notice that much of a difference and my partners has not complained much about them either. I will admit post sex they suck, because well the residue is not fun so the guy has to go wash up post "fun" because that taste / smell ick.
As for you poster I would suggest trying different styles and sizes, because once you find one that fits / works you really do not notice them.
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Posted: Sat Dec 12, 2009 9:17 pm
i dont think it really makes a dif....i made him use a condom the first time just cuz it was my first time [his first too biggrin ] and the only thing i have to say abut it is that 1. being the first time and him not liking the way he looks it kind of sucked horribly anyway 2. his d**k tasted horrible after [like icky rubber and lube with no real taste >.<] 3. it took him a while to get it on
the other time we did it unprotected and i dont know if the no condom mattered or if it was just the adrenalin of maybe getting caught or getting it from behind but i loved it so much better!
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Posted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 7:34 pm
Not a fan of condoms myself. If all parties concerned are disease-free, there really shouldn't be an issue. I suppose it is helpful is one partner has problems with ejaculating prematurely, seeing as it decreases sensitivity... but there's something about unprotected sex with someone you trust that is so much sexier, and so much closer.
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Posted: Wed Dec 16, 2009 7:38 pm
I use condoms and dental dams all the time. I use dental dams because I get cold sores on occasion, and condoms because it's easier to clean up. I love 'em, with the use of a decent amount of lubricant as well.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 6:36 am
You could always try the new one they advertise that they say it feels like nothing's there.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 12:29 pm
I've only had experience with condoms. They do decrease sensitivity, but only on the real thing. Most of the time we did the whole "pulling-out" method, which isn't 100% effective as birth control.
I don't mind covering dildos. I think condoms are necessary unless everyone has been checked. And checked thoroughly. The free STD tests at the health department where I live doesn't check for everything. Be careful.
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 12:51 pm
Not a fan, I could never get the damn thing on without losing some hardness. I also found it, dis pleasuring in that fact that I had to wast money on the wrong size, yea they really should put what is the difference between normal, large, X-L, and XXL damn it! Even then I had issues trying to keep thing from cutting off the blood flow making me go soft.
My advice, guys get tested every month. If you are with a girl that is the age when she can ask for the pill or what ever, go with the shot. No worry about taking a pill the same hour of every day, but if all else fails, use one.
If your a guy with a guy both of you get checked and show each other the papers. Don't use condoms, be a man and clean up the mess you made. wink
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 2:36 pm
Someone needs to tell me if they've used a v****a condom!!! Because my friend said in her health class they showed how to use one and i wanna know if it works! It seems strange and weird!
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Posted: Mon Dec 21, 2009 6:11 pm
RainbowsBunny Someone needs to tell me if they've used a v****a condom!!! Because my friend said in her health class they showed how to use one and i wanna know if it works! It seems strange and weird! Its the same as a condom that has the end that goes around the shaft widened to go over the vag..... you could get the same effect with plastic wrap. lol
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Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 1:20 pm
Shadows of Evil Sins Its the same as a condom that has the end that goes around the shaft widened to go over the vag..... you could get the same effect with plastic wrap. lol Hahahaha!! That is Messed Up...!!! xd But Essentially True. rofl
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