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 Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 1:11 pm
I need some help and male perspective xp
At my school, there're two guys, and I really don't know how I feel about them.
~ I liked one of them last year because he was sweet, kinda' weird and annoying, but still nice. We sat next to eachother, that was the only reason we talked, but he was nice, either way. Nothing really came of it, and we moved on into this year. We're in the same science class (again). He doesn't sit near me, so we don't talk as much, but when we do talk, he's really annoying xp He keeps teasing me and using nicknames I don't like and stuff, but it's not to a level that I can't stand. Randomly and out of the blue, he acts really nice to me and all buddy-buddy like last year, but then he teases me two seconds later.
~ Then there's the other guy. I've never liked him, and we've been fighting since 7th grade. Well, he's in 3 of my classes this year and I can't get away from him stare I honestly don't even know what's going on anymore xp He flirts with everyone yet still bugs the stew out of them, and then he just annoys me (no flirting). But either way, he won't leave me alone!!
Could someone please help explain to me what the heck these two want?!
I can't get them out of my mind, and it's really annoying me! I don't want to think about them all the time, and sadly, it's the annoying one who's on my mind the most. It's driving me crazy!
Do they want to be friends? Are they just bugging me to see what happens? Please someone explain this to me -_-
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Posted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 4:49 pm
Well, it really depends...btw how old are they?
I mean, I fought a LOT with some guy at school, but when we stopped fighting we worked out we had a lot in common and became quite close.
It really has a lot of options you could look at.
a) they want your attention, so they tease to gain it.
b) they are just teasing because they know you rise to the bait
c) they think if they do that, they will be "cool" to other males
and there are a lot more reasons...
I know it doesn't help you, but I mean...there really isn't a simple answer when you aren't there to actually see what happens.
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Bendii Straw Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Dec 23, 2009 6:27 pm
*sighs* True. I could probably explain everything but I didn't want to make an overly huge post xd
Um... They're around my age. 17-ish or so.
They're seniors in high school xd
The really annoying one (I'm going to just call him T) actually seems slightly similar to me, and that's another reason that he ticks me off so much.
We wanted to do the same term paper and then he threw a huge uproar when I got the topic and he didn't (Aphrodite Goddess of Love xd ) and there're other random things that're similiar stare
But it irks me because I keep thinking that if he'd just shut up and pay attention for 5 minutes then he'd realize the fighting's pointless because we both have pretty big ego-s/pride.
It'll never stop because we both hate to lose stressed
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Posted: Thu Dec 24, 2009 5:21 pm
wise_ninja_person *sighs* True. I could probably explain everything but I didn't want to make an overly huge post xd
Um... They're around my age. 17-ish or so.
They're seniors in high school xd
The really annoying one (I'm going to just call him T) actually seems slightly similar to me, and that's another reason that he ticks me off so much.
We wanted to do the same term paper and then he threw a huge uproar when I got the topic and he didn't (Aphrodite Goddess of Love xd ) and there're other random things that're similiar stare
But it irks me because I keep thinking that if he'd just shut up and pay attention for 5 minutes then he'd realize the fighting's pointless because we both have pretty big ego-s/pride.
It'll never stop because we both hate to lose stressed it soulds like you like him, alot...
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Posted: Fri Dec 25, 2009 10:23 am
I do not! scream
He's annoying as crap, and he's freakishly confusing and stupid!
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 11:29 am
wise_ninja_person I do not! scream
He's annoying as crap, and he's freakishly confusing and stupid! yup!...you like him
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Posted: Sun Dec 27, 2009 6:29 pm
no I don't!! stressed
he's a freakin' jerk with an ego the size of Texas who doesn't care or think about anything but himself! he talks without thinking and flirts constantly, and never shuts up about his stupid freakin' football team!! scream
stressed
he's a jerk, he's inappropriate, and he's a flippin' pervert who shouldn't even be in the leadership at my school stressed
the only reason he is in it is because he was a freakin' football star this year or something. he acts all tough, but he always cried whenever we lost! stressed
I do NOT like him! all he does is get on my nerves!
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Posted: Wed Dec 30, 2009 4:02 pm
So, amazingly, I think I've figured out one of the boys (I think about these things a lot, and after passing through several scenerios, I'm pretty sure I got it)
See, T (the really annoying one who I hate) is just a jerk, and I still don't have a clue what the crap goes through his annoying little head, but the other guy (H) I get (I think).
H is just a friend. He doesn't want anything more, and he's a perfectly normal guy. However, he's friends with T who annoys me constantly and may be the bane to my existance. Because of this, he has to bug me also, but on a much smaller scale. He knows when to back off, and he's smart enough to even know when it's a bad time because we hung out last year.
So, he's just a friend and will most likely stay that way for the rest of the year unless something else happens which I don't see happening.
T is still a mystery and when I see him next week, I will most likely yell at him and continue to do so until we graduate, and after that, I'll never see him again, so I guess that's the end of that.
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