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Alright, there’s a girl I like, I'm 16 and she's 15. She can't go out until she's 16, and that's in 11 months. I am perfectly willing to wait. I am not however, perfectly willing to waste 11 months of my life with no result. Next time I go to her house I'm going to tell her that I still like her. I am at a loss when coming up for a possible reply to that. I like to be ready for anything and have response for it. I also don't know how to ask if it's worth waiting for her to become 16 without sounding like a d**k. I don’t want to be waiting all this time to be friend zoned, or her to say that she just don't like me that way.

I talked to this girl last year and we were doing good. Then on newyears last year I sent a message saying "Happy ******** Newyears!!!", her dad read it, said I disrespected his daugher and forbade me to talk to her. I patched things up in mid november, I've been going over to see her and texting her since.

I did ask her out, but it was all the way back in December of '08. That was after I hear from a mutual friend that she liked me too. Here (to the best of my memory) is what she said.

"I just got done with a bad situation with my last boyfriend, I'm not going to date again until I'm 16"

Recently she said that right around that time she went out with a 17 or 18 year old guy for a very short amount of time. She said it was really creepy and kind of scary. Which is understandable, her being 14 at the time. I figure this was the boy she was talking about, and I have a feeling her dad had quite a big hand in the "No dating until your sixteen" decision.... That reminds me, when I went to apologize to her dad, he said that "friends is all you'll be, because she's not old enough, we've already talked about it." I didn’t ask for him to elaborate, I didn't want him to think that that was the only reason I wanted to talk to her again.



I am sorry this is out of order, It's a copypasta of some of my post's and stuff, plus I just typed some. I asked this in the LI, but to limited avail. The question is in the main paragraph. Once again, sorry it's so sloppy.

We've talked about her dating before. She said she is going to date when she's 16 (which to be honest, kinda makes me think she's not serious about it, but whatever, she'll mature by then). Thing is, we don't go to the same school. I go to public, she goes to a private catholic school. The only time we talk is when I drive to her house, then we just usualy just stand on her porch until dark and then I say I should probobly leave, she hugs me, and I go.

Thaks for the advice, I'll keep it in mind. I will go over there either tomorrow or the next day.

Thanks, I'll need it. I'm probobly going to go over to her house today, but I want to wait for more replies first.

Ok man, I'm probobly going to do this on monday becasue her dad'll probobly be home tomorrow and I don't want bad s**t to happen that need not happen.

your friends right if she does say no don't stalk her just try your best and get over it

Tac: I wasn't going to stalk her if she said no, just continue our friendsship and cut romantic ties. Although my friend said not to even ask her at all...

Bendii: I went over to her ouse last night and stayed for about four hours. We hung out, and talked, and watched movies and that. It was fun. We talked politics, we talked vehicles, we talked about old times. I did find out I don't have any competition at her school, they're just not her type. I didn't tell her I liked her though, after having such a good time I didn't feel like driving home in sorrow.

*I have to go to school, so I'll finish typing this later....

I forgot to say, I asked her what she felt when her dad said I couldn't talk to her anymore, she said she couldn't really decribe it. Is that a good sign?