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 Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 12:42 am
and for the sake of the fiance i would like to fix it. he is a man and, like most men, wants to have sex often. i really dont have much of a sex drive. once im in the mood i enjoy it but its getting me in the mood thats the problem. are there any teas or anything i could do to better my sex drive?
right now we are lucky to have sex twice a month. once a month is the usual. its not that i dont want to have sex with him. i find him very appealing. i just dont seem to crave sex. ill materbate sometimes but even then its pretty rare
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:48 pm
You might be taking something that's interfering with your sex drive. Like most anti-depressants interfer with it.
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Real President of Nothing
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 1:57 pm
Hmmm.... come up with scents like from candles or incense that gets you mind spinning. Unlock your mind first then work on pleasing desire. I know someone that get's in the mood by the smell of cinnamon. I like wet earth smell myself or fresh cut grass. :3
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Posted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 3:54 pm
try yuri or yaio that always gets me happy and im very very not sexual. also try work out it geets hormones flowing
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Posted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:37 pm
he isnt into anything homosexual. lesbiens dont turn him on and gay men dont and i dont want to put him out of the mood right before we have sex
also i dont take anything medical at all. i was on the pill a bit ago but had to stop because it was making me grow tumors
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Posted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 7:50 pm
Low sex drive can be related to low amounts of zinc. Yogurt, whole grain breads, brown rice, and potatoes are foods that tend to be high in zinc. Bananas, dark chocolate, ginger, and honey are all good for increasing a person's sex drive.
Maybe you two just aren't sexually compatible?
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Posted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 8:09 pm
well when we do have sex its really wonderful and im always left satisfied afterwards. its just the part about me getting in the mood that i have trouble with. then again i also dont know any different since he is the only person ive ever slept with. ive fooled arond with girls before but that was back in highschool when i was still developing and my horomones were in high drive
it may be the zinc thing though since i hardly eat any of those things. i have to have alot of honey and dark chocolate on wholegrain bagels lol. but i will be eating alot more of those things and see if that helps
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:02 am
me and my boyfriend are still in high school and my parents highly disaprove of me doing anything sexual [i've already given myself to london 100% anyway but they dont know that] and i don't ever get excited....i just fake it O_o it's not much fun but it keeps london happy...i might try those honey and brown rice food things though...i wounder if the taste good together...
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 11:04 am
Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with?
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:38 pm
Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? D: i never thought it could be a lie....but we dont have sex much...like we've only done it about 3-4 times [twice his house and twice at school >.< i have issues] the school ones were real though O.o something about the possibility of being caught i guess...
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:04 pm
Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? i dont consider it a really bad lie when i fake it. he gets really turned on when ive had an orgasm and it makes him happy. i think of it like wearing a sexy nurse outfit to turn him on.
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:20 pm
Shanna66 Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? i dont consider it a really bad lie when i fake it. he gets really turned on when ive had an orgasm and it makes him happy. i think of it like wearing a sexy nurse outfit to turn him on. No, because it makes him believe that he is actually making you orgasm. He thinks that what he is doing is the right thing to make you orgasm. Why can't it be about your pleasure, and getting what you want?
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:29 pm
Zero Fail Shanna66 Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? i dont consider it a really bad lie when i fake it. he gets really turned on when ive had an orgasm and it makes him happy. i think of it like wearing a sexy nurse outfit to turn him on. No, because it makes him believe that he is actually making you orgasm. He thinks that what he is doing is the right thing to make you orgasm. Why can't it be about your pleasure, and getting what you want? well sometimes i just have trouble orgasming, it doesnt mean im not enjoying it or that he isnt doing something right. he has low self esteem and its not fair for him to think that its him doing something wrong, wether or not i tell him its my fault he blames himself if he cant get me to orgasm
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:35 pm
Shanna66 Zero Fail Shanna66 Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? i dont consider it a really bad lie when i fake it. he gets really turned on when ive had an orgasm and it makes him happy. i think of it like wearing a sexy nurse outfit to turn him on. No, because it makes him believe that he is actually making you orgasm. He thinks that what he is doing is the right thing to make you orgasm. Why can't it be about your pleasure, and getting what you want? well sometimes i just have trouble orgasming, it doesnt mean im not enjoying it or that he isnt doing something right. he has low self esteem and its not fair for him to think that its him doing something wrong, wether or not i tell him its my fault he blames himself if he cant get me to orgasm But it kinda is his fault if he can't get you to orgasm. Most women that are having trouble orgasming think it's their fault, it isn't!
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Posted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:57 pm
Zero Fail Shanna66 Zero Fail Shanna66 Zero Fail Faking it is not healthy for the relationship. Think of it as being a major lie. Do you really want to lie to the person you're in a relationship with? i dont consider it a really bad lie when i fake it. he gets really turned on when ive had an orgasm and it makes him happy. i think of it like wearing a sexy nurse outfit to turn him on. No, because it makes him believe that he is actually making you orgasm. He thinks that what he is doing is the right thing to make you orgasm. Why can't it be about your pleasure, and getting what you want? well sometimes i just have trouble orgasming, it doesnt mean im not enjoying it or that he isnt doing something right. he has low self esteem and its not fair for him to think that its him doing something wrong, wether or not i tell him its my fault he blames himself if he cant get me to orgasm But it kinda is his fault if he can't get you to orgasm. Most women that are having trouble orgasming think it's their fault, it isn't! it really is my fault. my mind will wander to random things far too often and i try to analize things and then i get worried and then i can orgasm. im not used to concentrating on how my body feels when its feeling something and its something im working on
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