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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 10:16 am


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First off, I would like to say in accordance with depression, that it is a disease. Many of us have it, but don't realize it.

Major depression is when a person has five or more symptoms of depression for at least 2 weeks. These symptoms include feeling sad, hopeless, worthless, or pessimistic. In addition, people with major depression often have behavior changes, such as new eating and sleeping patterns.

The symptoms of Depression are:

# Agitation, restlessness, and irritability
# Dramatic change in appetite, often with weight gain or loss
# Extreme difficulty concentrating
# Fatigue and lack of energy
# Feelings of hopelessness and helplessness
# Feelings of worthlessness, self-hate, and inappropriate guilt
# Inactivity and withdrawal from usual activities, a loss of interest or pleasure in activities that were once enjoyed (such as sex)
# Thoughts of death or suicide
# Trouble sleeping or excessive sleeping

Depression can appear as anger and discouragement, rather than as feelings of hopelessness and helplessness. If depression is very severe, there may also be psychotic symptoms, such as hallucinations and delusions. These symptoms may focus on themes of guilt, inadequacy, or disease.

The Causes of Depression can be:
A chemical imbalances in the brain, which may be hereditary or caused by events in a person's life. Some types of depression seem to run in families, but depression can also occur in people who have no family history of the illness. Stressful life changes or events can trigger depression in some people. Usually, a combination of factors is involved.

Men and women of all ages, races, and economic levels can have depression. It occurs more often in women.

You may be able to avoid some episodes of depression by:

* Avoiding alcohol, drugs, and caffeine
* Exercising regularly
* Learning how to relax and manage stress
* Maintaining good sleep habits

The elderly, or others who feel socially isolated or lonely can try volunteering or getting involved in group activities.

Medications and psychiatric counseling may prevent depression from returning. Some episodes of depression are not preventable.

When to contact a doctor:
Call 911, a suicide hotline, or get safely to a nearby emergency room if you have thoughts of suicide, a suicidal plan, or thoughts of harming yourself or others.

Call your doctor right away if:
* You hear voices that are not there.
* You have frequent crying spells with little or no provocation.
* You have feelings of depression that disrupt work, or family life for longer than 2 weeks.
* You think that one of your current medications may be making you feel depressed. DO NOT change or stop any medications without consulting your doctor.


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The reason I have made this thread because there is hope !! If we all stick together as a group, like HSLS, we can get through anything, because I feel we have an excellent connection between us, and we ALL support one another, sometimes even disregarding our OWN issues to help another person.

So, in conclusion, I would like this thread to not only HELP us, but to entertain us, as well. So, remember the ToS, but, pretty much anything goes here..... i.e. jokes, funny video clips, poetry, etc...BUT--- THEY ALL HAVE TO BE ABOUT BEING DEPRESSED OR SOMETHING HAVING TO DO WITH CHRONIC PAIN. If there is a graphic in here that does not pertain to getting better, or supporting one another, I WILL delete it.

So have fun, but please do not forget the thread of Hug Soft, Love Strong. I want us to have fun, but at the same time be very courteous and thoughtful while posting. If you think you may offend someone via a video clip, funny graphic, etc..... DO NOT include it in here. We are to respect one another. And I think, mainly,..... we are to love one another and help him/her out. Thank you from the bottom of my heart (based on requests) that this will be fun.
I love you all......

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 4:06 pm


I'm not sure if I'm understanding Depression as an illness concept completely... Idk how to explain what I'm thinking in clear details, but I have these questions about depression that been bugging my mind for quite sometime now. Since this thread is made mainly for that topic n chronic pains - I'll begin w/ my questions. Hopefully I can get a better understanding of depression n we can all learn sumthing new by me asking here.

1) How can someone be depressed if/when they do not have an illness or a disease that hindered their life? Would that count as a chemical imbalance?

2) How do u get diagnosis w/ depression? I mean, what's the actually process of that? I've heard millions of ppl r affected, but how do our docs know? I can somewhat imagine how n y we get n feel depress, but what about the avg person w/o the physical pains?

Hope every1 is having a painless evening tonite.
PostPosted: Wed Jan 06, 2010 5:15 pm


HI OG LoLo ! Maybe I can help you. My Mom has depression. She doesn't go out of the house unless she absolutely HAS to, she's tired a lot for no reason, she feels worthless and has tried committing suicide --I think 3 or 4 times. All unsuccessful, thank God. They had to pump her stomach out though, because she took an overdose of pills. The doctors told her she has depression because one of the key signs was loss of interest, and trying to kill herself. She lost interest in her kids, in what she liked to do or just going outside.

You can be depressed without even knowing it. Like when you first wake up, all you want to do is sleep even more. Heck, there were times she wouldn't wake up until 11:00 AM. She didn't have any other illnesses.

You get diagnosed with depression when you go to the doctor and tell him what's bothering you, or in her case, when she tried to kill herself, they assigned her a psychotherapist. (I think that's how u spell it) And in her sessions, she would tell the doctor how unworthy she felt, or in some cases feeling guilty, cuz she lost interest in doing stuff with us. She didn't have physical pains--she just didn't want to live anymore. And when she went to her regular doctor, she'd tell him what the doctor calls "symptoms". And when you have enough of these "symptoms", you fall under the category of being depressed. There's pills you take to get you thinking straight again. They're like "mood enhancers". You don't get "high" off the pills, they just help work her cells to be like a "regular person". And I say regular person, but I hope u know what I mean. Like a normal person.

She would think about HER childhood and how she thought she was treated unfairly. And that dwelled within her for years. She's the oldest of three girls. She always felt like she was the "last to be picked", so to speak. Or she felt her parents loved one child more than the other.

She also (had/has ??) a chemical imbalance. And if I'm right about this, a chemical is made in your body that makes something else in your body work. (I think Seratonin) It has to be something your body makes and has to be made in one cell to work in a different cell. If that isn't working properly, she's "off-kilter." She's imbalanced.

I hope I've answered some of your questions. It's hard seeing one of your parents go through this. Sometimes, I think, it's genetic too. (I think) But I remember my sister and my Dad taking her to the hospital, and practically carrying her to the car, she was so doped up from the overdose. But she always managed to do it when she knew one of us would be home soon. So, I really don't think she really meant to kill herself. Maybe she just wanted attention. And there again, that's entirely a whole other sickness.

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I can only tell you of my experience. When I went to the doctor, to get my thyroid levels checked, the doctor started talking to me about my weight. I have gain ALOT of weight in the last year. I burst into tears when he asked me what was going on in my life. After a series of questions he diagnosed me with depression. His estimation is that it started as post-partum depression that was never treated. My youngest is 9 years old. So in one form or another I have been living with this for at least 9 years! That explains why I have gained 100 pounds in the last 10 years.
My 10 year old son asks me often "Mom, why are you so grouchy?" I had withdrawn from my friends. I physically hurt everyday, some less than others but I always hurt. Suicide is not something I have had to deal with. Now I have had the thoughts of everyone would be better off without me. I had a sister that was 6 years older than me that died at 20 years old. I lost a child to SIDS so there is no way I could do that to my Mom. The pain of loosing a child is the worst pain there is.
The medicine I was put on is helping, I still am somewhat grouchy. But I feel better and am a little more active. I started Weight Watchers the first week of November. Most people told me I was crazy for starting a diet right before the holidays. Well, I have lost 10 pounds in 8 weeks, the 8 weeks of the holidays! This is the first time in a long time that I did not gain weight through the holidays.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 1:50 pm


Imters, that's a wonderful story !!! I'm so happy for you ! You've lost 10 lbs over the holiday season. How nice.... Congrats ! I'm really proud of you.

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 3:31 pm


Imters- I have to agree with Suze. Way to go! Honestly.... Losing weight has GOT to be the hardest thing to do outside of quitting smoking.
PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 4:23 pm


Thank you Ladies. Your praise means a lot to me.
@ Boldie I quit smoking 3 years ago, I agree with you 100%! I also have to tell you. Weight watchers is making it easy. I do the cooking and my Mom, who does not excersize at all, is averaging 1 pound a week. She is 71 years old.
Thanks again for the posts. I know I joined and then kind of disappeared, it's hard to stay online most days for me. TTFN=TaTa for now


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PostPosted: Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:33 pm


TY imters n Suze for sharing ur stories here... Based on ur accounts, I can c now that depression is like a disease or illness. There r diff types, experiences, n certainly diff lvls of it. In Suze's mom case, her lvl of depression is more severe than imters bcos she have thoughts of n have attempted suicide. @Suze - I can't imagine how difficult it must b to c ur mom in a state of depression. I hope those meds r helping her think straight again. U should cont. to support n encourage her to get better. @imters - Congrats on ur weight loss.=) Keep it going, don't give up. Tho ur depression is milder, I can't imagine what u have gone thru in 10yrs w/o being diagnosis... I guess that's y it goes un-notice, bcos u have lighter symptoms. But it's great to hear that u r recovering n is taking the initiative to get urself healthier w/ diet & exercise. U shouldn't listen to ppl, they're not U. They live in their world, n u live in ur world. Sorry didn't mean for that to come out as offensive or anything. Anyway, thx again for sharing - I truly appreciate it.
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PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 11:32 am


OG LoLo- Yeah, except it didn't show up. sad In this thread, you can put anything you guys want pertaining to depression. If that means you saw a Non-Offensive cartoon, or cute little saying, or whatever. That's what this thread is all about. Even if you come across something "educational" regarding depression, by all means, go ahead. OR, if you have a personal story and need support, then I urge you to post it. OK? Love you guys !!!!!

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~boldie




Any advice given here is done so with the knowledge that I am NOT a real life counselor or a medical professional. If your topic is serious enough that you need professional help, I encourage you to seek help immediately.

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 16, 2010 6:47 pm


Thank you i never used to get depressed but now that i have my son back home and our truck keeps breaking it is killing me i try to play gaia to relax but every time i turn around they have new stuff and of course like most i want them all before they go up so high but with all the money going out for the stupid truck and other stuff no money left for gaia so i just get so frustrated i think that was an awesome story great job good luck and good luck with your mom hope everyone is having a good day i have had a very hard few days sorry for not posting
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