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30 is 7 years off for you, so much can change an happen over a matter of weeks nevermind how much can change in 7 years!
you need to be careful though because if you carry on thinking like this you'll end up just becomming desperate which will affect your confidence an will make you appear needy to women which we dont like razz
relationships are overrated anyway tbh.
just chill out an stop worrying, it'll happen , you'll find someone, if you carry on stressing about it you wont get anywhere, concentrate on your friends an social life an relationships will follow.

Let's remember one thing... whether or not you believe in an afterlife... it doesn't really matter in the long run.

If you don't believe in any form of eternal reward, when you die, you're nothing and don't care about anything anymore.
If you believe in an eternal reward, then what are you worried about, you're going to get an even greater reward.