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Why is sexism and sexual harassment so acceptable to women?

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:44 am


Thread in the GD which makes me want to reach through the screen and beat this guy to a bloody pulp. No, I am not exagerrating and no, I don't think that I'm overreacting.

I have seen way too many instances of women just sitting back and laughing, laughing at sexual harassment. It's 2010, a century ago, women got the right to vote (99 years ago for me, being Canadian). I can't believe that we've made this little progress. At least when women were considered property, if you played the game right, you could expect to "win" at the end: a decent husband, a good house, financial stability, social respect. What do you get now? The accepted attitude that it's alright for men sexually harass you and if you get angry about it, you must be fat and/or ugly and therefore "jealous" of the "compliments" that attractive women get. Compliments? Since when is having some random man say lewd things about your body a compliment? Since when is that not harassment?

I'm so sick of women and men telling me that I should "calm down". That it's just a joke, lighten up, don't take it so seriously. Wow, I must be so "uncool" or naive or friendless because I see these remarks for what they are: another disgusting way to beat women down and stop them from ever having the gall to think of themselves as equal to men. Why? Why is this still going on? Why don't people see this for what it is? Why are people so ******** content to sit there and encourage this when they know it's wrong, they're just too cowardly to stand up and say something about it.

People talk about Afghanistan being a shitty place for women. From where I'm standing, the only upside about being a woman in North America is that you won't get killed for talking to a strange man.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 2:46 pm


I'm sorry, but I think it's just a joke. Nothing deeper than that. I bet they think "haha, this'll get some laughs", not " haha, this'll put that woman in her place".

I don't think people see it as what you're making it out to be because it (usually) isn’t meant to be that. It's not harassment when it's wanted. Some women want these complements, I assume because it raises their self esteem somehow. Some dress provocatively to show of their body, and want comments and attention. Although some arn't like that. In which case it is up to the recever of these comments to decide if they are harassment or not. I can safely say most of people who say these jokes and comments don't say them to bring women down. They just say them to be funny.

That's my two cents anyways.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 9:20 am


Well there has been more progress than that.

There are women who are CEO's of multi billion dollar corporations.

pepsi, xerox, western union, avon, ebay, and well munson medical center (hospital where i live, its in the top 100 hospitals in the country) their entire board is women actually. Thats just to name a very few.

I have had a female boss at every single one of my jobs. My sister has been the manager or regional manager at every single job she ever had.

There are thousands of grants for starting a business for women. (there are no grants given for the soul purpose of being male) Custody and divorce hearings favor the female.

The chief justice of the supreme is a women, the governor of my state is a women, the mayor of my city is a women.

the chief of staff is Hillary Clinton.

And i was a waiter for three years. I couldn't tell you the amount of time women inappropriately flirted with me. XD

One time a woman at a table even smacked my a**. XD

Could i complain about that? Hell no. People would laugh at that. But a women there would be people up in arms ready to punch the guy out.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 06, 2010 7:11 am


well at least hopefully as you said they will all grow out of it...:/

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