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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U Captain
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 Posted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 5:20 pm
So this isn't really a place for asking advise even though you are free to do so. This is more of a place to rant and get the stream off your cheast. Feel free to rant and rave about your boyfriend/girlfirend, husband/wife, or even a annoying ex. This is your place to vent and not be judged <3
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Posted: Mon Apr 19, 2010 10:38 pm
Oh thank you so much for making this spot! Sometimes it's just so good to rant about your spouse.
My husband is now refusing to go to marriage counseling tomorrow because I haven't gotten my liscense yet. He believes that our counselor is going to blame him and turn everything around so he's the bad guy. We can't get my liscense yet because I need two things for proof of residence and I only have 1 bill in my name. Bank statements and and the bill I both get as E-statements to save trees. He's pushing me constantly and asking the same exact things over and over and over and it's ticking me off. We need the counseling bad because there have been several times when I just wanted to leave him. He doesn't take anything seriously unless it's his games or something for him and I have gotten beyond sick of it. He comes home and automatically starts playing games unless I have the tv occupied then whines if I'm on Gaia for only an hour or so. He spends little to no time with me or his daughter. He says time together is me sitting next to him while he plays on his stupid games. He never listens to me, leaves me to deal with our daughter so he can play, goes to sleep and leaves her by herself unless I wake up. I can be awake for three days and be blacking out exhausted and he will still fall asleep and make me stay up with her. I love my daughter but he has been gone half her life and for almost two years I have only ever had 1 day to myself and even that was a few hours and during that time he let our daughter get into anything she wanted. Not even a year old and he let her chug soda. He didn't 'see' her because he was too busy playing his stupid video game. He's nothing more than a tall kid with aboslutely no thoughts for anybody but himself and I'm tired of raising two children.
Wow.... and that wasn't even half of it. sweatdrop
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Z-MusicalChairMassacre-U Captain
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 11:02 am
I got SO mad at David the other day. He was whinning and crying and complaing about being tired and over worked cause I needed some yard work done. Fine, whatever he works 6 days a week I get it! But then he goes out that day to play baseball after all that complainging and not helping me..SO MAD
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 3:30 am
Cody whines when we don't have money and gets mad when I want something ceap like soda then goes and spends what little money we have left. We're trying to BUY a house of our own, we still have bills to pay, AND we're saving up to go on vacation! We've put no money away for it yet and he wants to spend everything we have. All of this mind you after he said I could be completely in charge of finances. He promised to spend only what I allowed him last pay day and he went over by almost a hundred. So I took his card. ^^ And I hid it where he will never find it. Try spending money now! scream
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 3:15 pm
I busted my butt cleaning our house with a broken vacuum AND a broken sink. All of that on top of watching a rambunctious overly-energetic two-year-old who thinks it's cool to throw things on the floor right after mommy picked up. Not even five minutes home from work and my husband destroys the house, ignores anything I ask him to do, and plays games. He then goes on to say, "I hardly ever play games anymore!" He's played them 3-4 hours everyday for the past two weeks. I only ask him to do one chore in the house and he's done it once in the past month. My birthday was last Sunday. I only wanted three things: Not to cook, not to clean, and not have to deal with our daughter screaming and crying. The first thing he did was yell at her then leave her upstairs with me while he went to sleep. When he woke up he got on the game leaving me to make breakfast for everyone. The birthday present he got me was a game. Earlier in the week I had straight up told him that I didn't want a game. I was tired of games and I never play them anymore. So naturally he got a game. Then he tried to buy me another one when we went to return it! After that we went to dinner (my idea). Before we had left the house I'd asked him if he checked the bank so I knew we'd have enough money. He said yes. Our card was declined so I had to spend the $50 my grandparents gave me on dinner even though I wanted to save it so I could pay for books so I could start college. He didn't even care. This was my first birthday I've been able to spend with him in the three and a half years we've been together. Oh and that vacation I talked about before? We went to visit our families, his first. The whole time he ignored our daughter and I, and chilled with his dad in his closed room while his dad and his girlfriend were smoking pot! My husband is in the military and could get kicked out just by being in the same house! He didn't care and neither did his dad or his grandmother. All his family has ever done was try to come between us and it nearly worked. We were both set on divorce by the time that my daughter and I left to go to California. He stayed so he could party and get drunk and do whatever he wanted. On our way back home, he told me he's been smoking for over a year now. I hate smoking, I can't stand the smell or taste and I believe it's not a healthy lifestyle. It will kill you and he knows how I feel. Once he was away from his family he changed, of course. Now he wants us to move there. No. And may I add that I drove for 18 hours STRAIGHT, hadn't slept in 48 hours, and I still don't have a liscense. That was just on the way to Arizona. Then I had to drive to Cali and back to Arizona, then I drove most of the way back home. The one time he drove we got pulled over for speeding.
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