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 Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 4:44 pm
I'm not posting this for pitty so don't take it like that.
Ok my mother has a bad foot and cannot stand for more than ten minutes without it swelling. We jsut recently found out she has a mass above her overies that can be cancerous. My sister just got knee surgery and is still recovering. My father has a very bad back (four herneated *can't spell* disks and more).
My family is very poor, no one will give us a job and we're struggling to survive. We're all at each others throates. I can't sleep, eating is difficult (I have no appatite), I can't sleep, when I do I have terrible nightmares. I'm becoming very aggresive towards the people I love. It's like I'm a new person. Can anyone help me just stay me?
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 5:39 pm
Sorry you are going through such a hard time.
Stress can do some nasty things to a person if there is no proper outlet or way to make the problems ease up. All you can do is try to find things you still enjoy doing. Anything that will offer you a momentary break from what is taking place and allow you to recenter yourself. And by break, I mean break. Do something fun that you like to do. Go for a walk, hang out with friends, work on a hobby, read...whatever (a little meditation and breathing exercises doesn't hurt either smile )
Know that when you go for these breaks you are not abandoning anyone, but in order for you to cope and asist your family through this you need to take care of yourself.
If it gets bad, take a break and don't be afraid to do so.
If you need a place to vent, feel welcome to pm me anytime. If you decide you don't want it read, let me know and I will respect your wishes.
Take care of yourself
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Posted: Sun May 16, 2010 11:58 am
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Posted: Sun May 16, 2010 12:41 pm
You can fight the stress with positive things, just think positive and you WILL accomplish anything. And by the way, if people turn you down for a job, they probably just lost out on an awesome person such as yourself.
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 1:50 pm
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2010 4:34 pm
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