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 Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 2:35 pm
I moved away from massachusetts to clorado, my best friend, who was born on the same day as me, august 9th, I had a huge crush on her, but that was when we were younger, now there is this girl who has short brown hair, pretty eyes and same height as me, who I've also got a crush on now. D: but even though I can't talk to my old best friend I still insanely like her sad it felt like it was destined for us to meet. What do you guys think?
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 5:13 pm
Unfortunately love is complecated, in my opinion, if you can't talk to the first girl anymore, then there is no way to find out if she feels the same about you. So ithini of the other girl likes you to, then you should go out with her.
This is just my personal opinion.
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 5:34 pm
True, we do wave to eachtother and say hi alot smile but I mean she's REALLY sweet, beautiful and I wanna ask her out very deeply badly, but I'm too shy too. sad
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 5:40 pm
ShinjuPearl True, we do wave to eachtother and say hi alot smile but I mean she's REALLY sweet, beautiful and I wanna ask her out very deeply badly, but I'm too shy too. sad unfortunately I have that probelm, and have know idea how to fix it >_<
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Posted: Tue Jun 15, 2010 6:03 pm
Okay, I totally understand the shyness thing. I've been shy for a long time. And asking someone out is, like, MAJOR anxiety-inducing. But let me tell you a little story.
I've known this guy for about two years, and we've chatted quite a bit and have some stuff in common. We get along fairly well. And I had a crush on him. I went for nearly two years, not making a move, even though it really could have gone either way.
Last month, in my gym class, we went to do a zip line. It involved climbing onto a shaky ladder, climbing a tree, and getting on to a teeny little platform. I've always had a fear of heights. But I wanted to do this, to see what it was like, to try it at least once. I got up there and nearly peed myself. But once I was clipped in, I closed my eyes, counted off, and jumped. Once I actually took that step and was sailing through the air, I opened my eyes and enjoyed it.
Later that day, I realized that this was ridiculous; I just faced my biggest fear of heights by jumping out of a tree, facing death, but I couldn't get up the guts to make a move on this boy. So the next day, we chatted, and, seemingly out of the blue, I asked him if he wanted to see a movie sometime.
After I asked, I felt great. I felt the same rush of adrenaline I felt on the zip line.
Of course, his answer made me sick for the next few weeks, but the point is that I grew and faced two of my biggest fears!
So treat asking her out like jumping out of a tree. Just jump and you'll get the biggest natural high of your life. And with this, your harness won't get unclipped and you won't fall to your death into a bunch of pricker/poison ivy bushes below.
Just be all like, "Oh hey, by the way, *name*, do you wanna see a movie this weekend or something?" Keep it cool.
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 3:45 am
Yeah, but I almost had a mega freakout because my friends tried to push me into her so she would just dance with me eek and I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO DANCE, so I just had to walk away and just stay alone. To be honest with everyone... I just want to touch my lips to hers redface
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 5:48 am
just go w da flow
if u cant c ur old luv then dont torture ur heart
just move on n u shuld find great happiness
after all after a great pain comes a great happiness smile
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Posted: Wed Jun 16, 2010 1:13 pm
Today we signed eachothers books before we left today, she said she enjoyed being with me for the past 2 years and is hoping to see me again next year... heart
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Posted: Fri Jun 18, 2010 6:13 pm
More and more, I'm beginning to think, ''What if this is the girl I'm suppose to end up with...?' We do share one big thing in common... We both really enjoy drawing. heart
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:27 am
I'm starting to learn some tips on dealing with emotions of love. The most important thing i've learned about crushes, is don't get emotional with your crush, it will hurt alot. I'm not emotional with her, but now I'm worried about next year where i might become more attached to her...?
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Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 1:03 pm
Ok. First of all, please keep in mind crushes can do just that, crush you.
Second, concider these things when deciding what to do:
*Why do you like them both?
*How well do you know BOTH of them?
*Do you really risk your friendship with your best friend with dating her that may not last? (Dating is build upon attraction and 'love' but friendship is made of something stronger)
Ask one of them out when you figure out which one you want the most, the worst they can say is no. Don't feel bad if they do say no, because you're not the one who's loosing. They are. They probably just denied one of the best things that ever happened to them.
I wanted to date one of my closest friends, I'd hang out with him EVERY weekend. The more I hung out with him, the more he showed he'd liked me. First, he started holding me hand at random times, then he started giving me a kiss, he even gave me an adorable bear for v-day.
I eventually told him I liked him to. A month went by and he didn't ask me out. When I asked him 'why haven't you asked me out yet, you know I won't say no.' His reply was this: 'I'm really shallow and you're really fat. We can't date.'
So be careful is the point of this story. Sometimes things just were not meant to be
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Posted: Tue Jun 22, 2010 3:11 pm
Her Silent Cries Ok. First of all, please keep in mind crushes can do just that, crush you. Second, concider these things when deciding what to do: *Why do you like them both? *How well do you know BOTH of them? *Do you really risk your friendship with your best friend with dating her that may not last? (Dating is build upon attraction and 'love' but friendship is made of something stronger) Ask one of them out when you figure out which one you want the most, the worst they can say is no. Don't feel bad if they do say no, because you're not the one who's loosing. They are. They probably just denied one of the best things that ever happened to them. I wanted to date one of my closest friends, I'd hang out with him EVERY weekend. The more I hung out with him, the more he showed he'd liked me. First, he started holding me hand at random times, then he started giving me a kiss, he even gave me an adorable bear for v-day. I eventually told him I liked him to. A month went by and he didn't ask me out. When I asked him 'why haven't you asked me out yet, you know I won't say no.' His reply was this: 'I'm really shallow and you're really fat. We can't date.' So be careful is the point of this story. Sometimes things just were Note: I can't talk to the other one that lived in massachusetts anymore sad , and the other one with brown hair is really the only one I really like. We both get along togethor really well and we both enjoy drawing alot smile
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Posted: Fri Jun 25, 2010 12:29 pm
ShinjuPearl Her Silent Cries Ok. First of all, please keep in mind crushes can do just that, crush you. Second, concider these things when deciding what to do: *Why do you like them both? *How well do you know BOTH of them? *Do you really risk your friendship with your best friend with dating her that may not last? (Dating is build upon attraction and 'love' but friendship is made of something stronger) Ask one of them out when you figure out which one you want the most, the worst they can say is no. Don't feel bad if they do say no, because you're not the one who's loosing. They are. They probably just denied one of the best things that ever happened to them. I wanted to date one of my closest friends, I'd hang out with him EVERY weekend. The more I hung out with him, the more he showed he'd liked me. First, he started holding me hand at random times, then he started giving me a kiss, he even gave me an adorable bear for v-day. I eventually told him I liked him to. A month went by and he didn't ask me out. When I asked him 'why haven't you asked me out yet, you know I won't say no.' His reply was this: 'I'm really shallow and you're really fat. We can't date.' So be careful is the point of this story. Sometimes things just were Note: I can't talk to the other one that lived in massachusetts anymore sad , and the other one with brown hair is really the only one I really like. We both get along togethor really well and we both enjoy drawing alot smile Ok well just ask her.
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