Okay, I have read some of ya'lls post and was completly outraged! How can anyone say that about another person, especially when they 1 know nothing about that person, 2 if you judge aren't you just showing other's that your like the peolpe who never want to try and understand? That you don't remember what it was like when you were trying to find yourself, and people kept labling you, kept judging you?
I know I hate it when someone judges me, but I've started to grow used to it. But when you do judge someone have you walked in there shoes? Heard their stories, their reasons for being who they are?
Let us take Emo for example ( please don't be mad at this my Emolious friends, but you are the most sensitive of our black clad family.)
People accuse Emo's of being wimpy, and weak. But hey what if they were abused and just always sad from it. And another thing people who cut themselves are not Emo's they are Cutter's.
Now you can be a cutter/emo, cutter/goth, cutter/jock, cutter/prep, but cutting doesn't mean Emo. Emotional means Emo, I am Emo/Goth/Punk with a pinch of Scene. I used to cut, I loved seeing my blood and tasting it on my tounge, but I quit, now I admit I do relapse at times, but I never cut deep.
So next time you judge someone think about the fact that you might not know what's going on in their lives, my friend was abused and another was sexually abused from the she was four to eleven and her mom never did anything about, but I did, I saved her. But I never knew until she came to my window and told me. So remember never judge a book by it's cover, always read a chapter then decide.
I know I hate it when someone judges me, but I've started to grow used to it. But when you do judge someone have you walked in there shoes? Heard their stories, their reasons for being who they are?
Let us take Emo for example ( please don't be mad at this my Emolious friends, but you are the most sensitive of our black clad family.)
People accuse Emo's of being wimpy, and weak. But hey what if they were abused and just always sad from it. And another thing people who cut themselves are not Emo's they are Cutter's.
Now you can be a cutter/emo, cutter/goth, cutter/jock, cutter/prep, but cutting doesn't mean Emo. Emotional means Emo, I am Emo/Goth/Punk with a pinch of Scene. I used to cut, I loved seeing my blood and tasting it on my tounge, but I quit, now I admit I do relapse at times, but I never cut deep.
So next time you judge someone think about the fact that you might not know what's going on in their lives, my friend was abused and another was sexually abused from the she was four to eleven and her mom never did anything about, but I did, I saved her. But I never knew until she came to my window and told me. So remember never judge a book by it's cover, always read a chapter then decide.
