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knight_princess78

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 7:26 am


I mean we are who we are, why cant they accept that?
PostPosted: Sat Jul 03, 2010 5:01 pm


they are trying to ''protect us'' but they are really smuggling us. you know whats weird they tell us to be who we are then they dont like it wht the hell man

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 9:01 am


next time your parents say somthing about not liking how you do somthing, remind them that when you were a little kid, they told you that you could be whatever you wanted to be, that you should be you, noone else, that its your life to live. If they still have the guts to tell you how to live, then ignore them.
its what I do with my mom.
she wants me to be cristian, go to church every sunday, and be a lawyer when I grow up.
I dont go to church, Im wiccan, and Im gonna be a lot of stuff when I go through collage, but not a lawyer.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 23, 2010 2:24 pm


Yeah I know what you mean...I'm sorta a goth-emo hybrid, and my mom won't leave me alone. She just keeps asking me why I want to be goth or emo...and when I answer, my dad butts in and says all my answers are stupid. What's the point?! And they said that they are considering not letting me wear dark colors anymore. At all. Or skulls. Or anything even mildly dark. And they don't believe in shopping at Hot Topic or any places like it. It makes stuff reeeally hard... emo

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 10:12 am


i wouldn't know anything about this, don't have parents to disaprove of me.
PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 3:54 pm


its because they want us to be just like them. not our own person. sometines they say they want us to be our own person but they really dont mean it.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 12:22 pm


Well i don't have this problem- yet- because i just started going goth over the summer. I don't think they realise yet, plus i don't like lables anyway. I am who i am. But the reason they don't like it i think is because all of the lables and predujes and ideas that come with emo/goth/punk. They are scared and only want to protect us.
PostPosted: Thu Feb 10, 2011 2:26 pm


knight_princess78
I mean we are who we are, why cant they accept that?

i dont know but i find myself in the middle off me and what my father and family want me to be even freind dont see me as i wish they would
this has been going on for for too long i dont know who i am, what i am what do i stand for.
i wish to fight back and give a voice ...but my voice is only a whisper and my fight turns in to a struggle to breath ....
ive actually cried at night and ive cursed my self for being like i am
i wish some would help me

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 5:06 pm


EDIT: I am no longer the punk I used to be. Now, im better.

I
AM
AWESOME!

I am now a killer, badass jail-bird/do-i-look-like-i-care, your-opinion-dosen't-count-here, ADHD, Schizophrenic, Bipolar b***h that wears a collar.

AND DAMN PROUD OF IT!
PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 5:19 pm


my parents don't like me for who i am so much that they draged me to several consullers....... all of witch failed miserably twisted

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 12, 2011 5:22 pm


i've been emo for 2 in a half years now and all of a sudden it's like "whoa!! uhhh honey!? when did our son stare hating society and dress in all black? well i will not stand for this!!".........what the ******** is up with that?......... stare stare stare stare
PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2011 8:07 pm


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Yeah I know what you mean...I'm sorta a goth-emo hybrid, and my mom won't leave me alone. She just keeps asking me why I want to be goth or emo...and when I answer, my dad butts in and says all my answers are stupid. What's the point?! And they said that they are considering not letting me wear dark colors anymore. At all. Or skulls. Or anything even mildly dark. And they don't believe in shopping at Hot Topic or any places like it. It makes stuff reeeally hard... emo



I'm really sorry for you. Kinda of the same. I'm a tomboy lesbian (somewhat in the closet) and love my dark loose shirts, skinny jeans, skirts, shorts (guys and girls), tank tops, and converse. But they try to buy me girly clothes everything but the skirts, skinny jeans, and tank tops, are from the guys department. I would love to shop from Hot Topic more often but I have low money. So I go to thrift shops for most of my clothes.

It gots so annoying to deal with them. Why can't parent and gift-givers just give us the money so we can buy things we like and let us express ourselves.


I feel for ya. Hope things get better!  

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2011 8:32 pm


knight_princess78
I mean we are who we are, why cant they accept that?

yeah, well. because the "care" about u. but if they really cared, they'd let us be who we want to be and accept that we might make a mistake.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2011 3:47 pm


Its hard.... and sometimes scary

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2011 6:47 pm


Well, To Be Honest .. My Parents Dont Know The Whole "Emo" Thing Yet ...
They Only Know The Stereotype Of "Emo" ... Well My Mom Does At Least ...
Anyways, They Only Nag Us Because Even Though They Tell Us To Be Whatever We Want Ourselves To Be, They Really Just Try To Trick You And Lead You Into Being What They Want You To Be.
But I've Been Wearing A Lot Of Kandi Bracelets So They Think I've Gone Back To Normal .. Although they Dont Know What These Bracelets Are Covering.
And The School Has Tried To Get Me Into Counseling But My Parents Refuse To Believe That I Cut Myself And Such .. Thank God. o.o
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