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 Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 5:53 pm
OK i work 40 hours a week my girlfriend who lives with me only goes to college i don't make her get a job so she can focus on school but she doest want to do any cleaning or really anything at the house so any ideas besides leaving her cuzz i don't want to leave her
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 7:00 pm
Hmmm you didn't even put in the fact that I WANT to get a job but you wont let me. If I ask for help while im attempting to clean you just ignore me and get all mad! HAHAHA and you don't even give me any money anyways! Oh wait you did 20 bucks for gas. SO SUCK IT! So stop acting like you are all innocent in this arguement!
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 7:16 pm
This relationship seems to have a major issue here. If I might ask, what do you each want out of the relationship?
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 8:27 pm
I say if your not working then clean the place, if he doesn't want you to get a job and you still do get a job, and talk about it together, don't just go and posted it on here for everyone to see. talk about it thats the best thing
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Posted: Tue Jul 27, 2010 8:49 pm
First if she wants a job, let her.
second write up a chore chart for the BOTH of you, that way there isnt arguing on whos turn it is to do something.
Though it sounds like there are bigger issues here then just that, as the others have said, talk it out.
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Posted: Sat Sep 11, 2010 4:34 pm
You already sound married sound talk it out.
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Posted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 8:38 pm
money is important.
my husband of a few weeks refuses to get a job and won't even finish his last semester of college.
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