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 Posted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 10:50 pm
So I've been bi since I was thirteen and actually came out to my friends last Halloween when I was a wee-bit intoxicated. My mom asked me if I liked guys on a car ride when it was me and her, awkward but I told her yes. We never talk about it, but its nice having her know.
Now on to my stepdad...
He is openly homophobic and very rude, derogatory, and etc. His father is openly gay, and even owns a gay bar up in Northern Illinois, where he used to cross dress a lot. I'm not sure if his father's sexual preferences have made this negative impact on my step-dad but one can only infer that they did.
Its hard having to sit through the demeaning comments and slurs my stepdad says on a regular basis, and I regularly argue with him about how stupid he's being but I havent told him that the reason I find his views so infuriating is that infact I like guys.
Idk what to do, because other than his certain views, he is a great man who cares about my mother and treats us good.
Its just confusing.
Was wondering if anybody had any advice.
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Posted: Thu Aug 19, 2010 7:19 pm
Gerik Alistair So I've been bi since I was thirteen and actually came out to my friends last Halloween when I was a wee-bit intoxicated. My mom asked me if I liked guys on a car ride when it was me and her, awkward but I told her yes. We never talk about it, but its nice having her know.
Now on to my stepdad...
He is openly homophobic and very rude, derogatory, and etc. His father is openly gay, and even owns a gay bar up in Northern Illinois, where he used to cross dress a lot. I'm not sure if his father's sexual preferences have made this negative impact on my step-dad but one can only infer that they did.
Its hard having to sit through the demeaning comments and slurs my stepdad says on a regular basis, and I regularly argue with him about how stupid he's being but I havent told him that the reason I find his views so infuriating is that infact I like guys.
Idk what to do, because other than his certain views, he is a great man who cares about my mother and treats us good.
Its just confusing.
Was wondering if anybody had any advice.
Do you think he'd throw you out if you told him? If not, tell him. If he's the sort where that's a real concern, don't. Better yet, talk to your mom about the fact that it bothers you. She'll surely understand why. Ask her if you should tell him, etc. Also, if you're bi, you always were... you just didn't know until you were thirteen.
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Posted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 5:47 pm
Gerik Alistair So I've been bi since I was thirteen and actually came out to my friends last Halloween when I was a wee-bit intoxicated. My mom asked me if I liked guys on a car ride when it was me and her, awkward but I told her yes. We never talk about it, but its nice having her know.
Now on to my stepdad...
He is openly homophobic and very rude, derogatory, and etc. His father is openly gay, and even owns a gay bar up in Northern Illinois, where he used to cross dress a lot. I'm not sure if his father's sexual preferences have made this negative impact on my step-dad but one can only infer that they did.
Its hard having to sit through the demeaning comments and slurs my stepdad says on a regular basis, and I regularly argue with him about how stupid he's being but I havent told him that the reason I find his views so infuriating is that infact I like guys.
Idk what to do, because other than his certain views, he is a great man who cares about my mother and treats us good.
Its just confusing.
Was wondering if anybody had any advice.
screw him! just tell him, no matter how mad he gets at least it will be a huge weight lifted.
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Posted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 8:24 pm
if hes s open hater chances are hell throw you out... bewcuase a wife will alway side with her hubby even if she loves her child dearly. i respect ppl are all pride but if theres a high risk youll get thorwn out on your a** id say dont tell him till you turn 18 then go ******** you and leavew anyway becuase then it wont matter. & to
boyslikegirlsluvrr
i respect your pride and pep but there no reason to lose a home just becuase her step dads a homophobe... when your young its sometimes better not to tell. in my opinion
ppl dont really get to know there sexual oreientation untill a bit later on in life anyway.becuase yah knw hormones and s**t can be confusing as all hell. also life experances shap who we are and how we react to ppl emotionaly
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Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:10 am
Tell him how you feel as kindly as possible.
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