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Shannelita

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:51 am


Yesterday a younger guy by two years asked me out. I said I would think about it and today I said yes. But know that I think about it I don't really think I want to go out with him. Mostly because of the gossip that will start about us. I live in a very small town and word gets around fast. i don't know if I could live with it or not. I think he's very sweet but at the same time I don't like- like him. What should I do? Please help!
PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 3:48 pm


well may i ask y are you dating? If you do not like-like him then y go out? You do know the main purpose of dating is like finding a guy who you would like to marry and see which guys you like or dont like being around. i know you may not think so but heh i know i didnt either but you have to think why are you datein? if its to find love in someone go to your friends or family. how old r you? Is they boy a christain or a man of God? Dating is also not really haveing a bf or gf it can be just with your friends. Dating is getting to know someone and how they are around ppl not nessasarily meaning you guys are together. My advice is dont go out. but yeah just something to think about

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:13 pm


If you don't like him, then I highly recommend that you tell him you are not interested as soon as possible. The only thing worse than saying no to a date is saying yes knowing that you know you'll never be able to reciprocate his feelings for you. The mature thing to do would have been to turn down the offer from the beginning if you were unsure. But it's too late for that, so the next best thing would just be to let him know that you're not feeling up to it anymore as soon as possible before his feelings get hurt.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 13, 2010 4:22 pm


From a guy's perspective, I'd say "be honest". Did he ask you to be his girlfriend? He just ask you out on one date, so nothing is set in stone.

Just be advised that dating/courtship is for two people to find out if God has marriage in store for them two.

Be honest and if you are not ready for dating for whatever reason, tell him.

DSHW


Shannelita

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 4:38 am


Thanks, a lot guys. This morning I told him how I felt and we argeed we could both just be good friends. He still confessed that he liked me but at least I wasn't leading him on.
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