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PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 8:36 am


...and then people bring me right back down. I hate it when they do that. I hate it when they say nobody cares and everybody's out to hurt them, when they're ignoring the people right in front of them telling them otherwise.

Yeah, I know they've told me they were afraid. But guess what? Not all that long ago I was afraid of living. I got over it. Why? Because I was willing to listen to people. I was willing to let them help me, instead of saying nobody cared, or getting mad when somebody tried to help, or starting fights, or just flat-out running and hiding from the world.

I understand that everybody has a different recovery time, but then there are those who think they're starting to recover and throw themselves into bad situations, over and over again. I can't stand that kind of crap. It gets on my nerves. Try actually listening to somebody who knows what they're talking about for once. Maybe then you won't end up in your own personal hell for years on end.

But I forgot. I don't know anything about you. Nevermind that we talked for a long time. You purposely kept yourself hidden from me while I put myself on the line for you. You're just gonna whine and complain about how I don't know the real you, because you're afraid to let anyone see you. You're all misunderstood and dark and whatnot, but nobody's allowed to see, or to help you get better. Wonderful way to show some equality, there.

Just get over it already. Swallow your pride, get over your fear, and freakin' talk to somebody. Let them get to know you. Or you really won't have any friends left at the end of the day.

Including me.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 10:35 am


Adrian Tyndall

Just get over it already. Swallow your pride, get over your fear, and freakin' talk to somebody. Let them get to know you. Or you really won't have any friends left at the end of the day.

Agreed
If you're going to ask for help at least consider your options. If someone gives you advice & you don't take it, you better have a backup plan for yourself otherwise you'll have a lot of explaining & frustration to go through later.

Being on that end of it, I learned not to be so self-centered about myself and went out to ask for help when I need it. I think it also helps now that I'm older and more willing to accept help from others vs. when I was a teenager & was angst about everything, yet, "I knew everything!" and "Didn't need to listen to you cause you don't know about me."

Bullshit. People are more willing to help if you let them know and don't instantly throw their help aside.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 27, 2011 10:32 pm


Guess that makes two of us now...
PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 2:31 am


God between RL and this place I feel emotionally drained..and always tired. I care deeply for the friends I make and have always given them my all. Some give back, others dont. The ones that dont can go F themselves! I keep a very small group of friends and they become family to me. I cant help but get emotionally involved with their problems and their happinesses. I just..have to stop doing that. I cant take it any more.


Edit: Wow..I made my own rant....

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 28, 2011 9:07 am


I know, Rubi. And I'm sorry it feels like everyone's dumping everything on you. I'm really not that torn up right now, I'm more or less annoyed at the anonymous person mentioned in this particular rant. And, well, now I'm disappointed and angry at a few more people, but that's beside the point. All in all, I've got it together, just directing rage in directions it needs to go. No big deal, yeah?
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