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 Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 5:29 pm
Why is it that Adults' think Teenagers do not know what 'True Love' is? We actually do. And since we are younger it means we have a larger acceptance, and variety of love. Why is it that Adults' want us to remain a virgin through all our years until we're married? Some don't want us to marry until we're 30+. When in actuallity our best years of fertility are in our 20's. And honestly, who wants to be in pain or have that really uncomfortable first time feeling on their honeymoon? I am a 16 yr old virgin. My soon to be Fiance', is not. We've decided after our one year we are going to have sex. We are both serious, know the risks, are willing to accept them, and he isn't pressuring me at all. In my opinion, anyone in a serious, honest, loving, equal, and responsible, relationship, should be allowed to decide what they do together. Compromising, is always a strong point.
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 6:32 pm
Prolly because we're half-minded twats who think we know everything?
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 4:52 am
My Name Is Porn Prolly because we're half-minded twats who think we know everything? Please watch your language. And I feel like that is directed toward me, not the whole. But this aside. No one is half minded completely. We each have our own personalities, and different opinions. I'm asking in this why do adults try to make us conform? Or submit? Or use our weaknesses to control us? Because in actuality they're afraid for their futures in these young adults hands. We are their futures and in order for adults to have control over their future they grasp and manipulate us. In other words most of us teenagers with intellectual power feel shackled. Because they don't want change. They want to believe just because they're older they know more. When if you take a 20 yr old and a 40 yr old, yes the 40 yr old may have more common knowledge, but because when we're younger we're more open minded we have more sense of knowledge and more doors to open. Sex, with a someone you love is special either way. I see no point in waiting and feeling more pain or discomfort, especially on my wedding night. As long as precautions are taken; everything should be ok. Again, please watch your language.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:30 pm
Who says adults/older people aren't open minded, have a more sense of knowledge and more doors to open? Today's youth is F.U.B.A.R., thinkin' we know it all, the world is our orchard. It's not and we don't. I've met more open-minded adults and a hella better "sense of knowledge" then most people. Sense of knowldge? seriously? Were what 15-17? Our sense of knowledge is that of 15 years living for the most apart under and in some cases rebelling against our parents but like it or not your parents until you left/kicked out/moved out had an impact on you, I don't care how much you say you rebelled against them, they still had an impact on you. Where as they...have 20+ years of living on there own away from their parents. Now you may say you hate your parents, or you disagree with them or whatever, they gave birth to your a**, they've given you cloth, food, housing, everything you need to survive happily without them you would still be a lil bit of sperm swimming around in a sea of c**.
Sex...I don't see in any way is special...We've been doing it for thousands of years, If we din't we as a race wouldn't exist. Everything that lives...does it. Billions upon billions of people, animals, bugs do it every day....Not that special just cause your doing it with someone you "love".
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 3:38 pm
My Name Is Porn Who says adults/older people aren't open minded, have a more sense of knowledge and more doors to open? Today's youth is F.U.B.A.R., thinkin' we know it all, the world is our orchard. It's not and we don't. I've met more open-minded adults and a hella better "sense of knowledge" then most people. Sense of knowldge? seriously? Were what 15-17? Our sense of knowledge is that of 15 years living for the most apart under and in some cases rebelling against our parents but like it or not your parents until you left/kicked out/moved out had an impact on you, I don't care how much you say you rebelled against them, they still had an impact on you. Where as they...have 20+ years of living on there own away from their parents. Now you may say you hate your parents, or you disagree with them or whatever, they gave birth to your a**, they've given you cloth, food, housing, everything you need to survive happily without them you would still be a lil bit of sperm swimming around in a sea of c**. Sex...I don't see in any way is special...We've been doing it for thousands of years, If we din't we as a race wouldn't exist. Everything that lives...does it. Billions upon billions of people, animals, bugs do it every day....Not that special just cause your doing it with someone you "love".
Ok. I'm not saying I rebelled. I am still living with my mother and brother. I was ADOPTED. I am about to be 17. And have lived through alot, then again most teenagers have now adays.
Sex can be special, most people just do it for fun or to have kids. I see sex as more than that. I see it as something that can make you stronger as a couple, and it's one of the most intimate acts we humans, everything, can do. So yes, when done with someone you love it can be very special.
Yes my ex-step dad had an impact on me. Don't trust men, especially those who drink excessively. My adopted mother taught me to people please and submit to others. My mothers ex wife taught me I'm lazy, a good for nothing, I shouldn't eat, I can't go places, I can't do anything right, that showers are to on/off in/out in five minutes, that heat is no necessary during freezing temps, that clothes are to be re-worn until they have too many holes, that chores are my responsibility only, and that for six years I wasn't allowed to really see my mother, oh and that I'm a dumbass, and to never speak Spanish or Japanese around her or anyone, and that hiding in my room eating 3 yr old chips for food is ok. My brother is teaching me that I am a kid and he is the adult. But him and I are both intellectual.
Living with my mom's ex-wife was what I'd call hell. She held everything over our heads. She bought this, she bought that. Nothing was ours, and that everything was my fault.
So no, the things I've had impacted upon my mind for the last 16 years and 7 months I'd rather never have taught to my children.
So no I have not survived happily. I can't even go to the hospital! I haven't been in about 8 yrs. All I've learned is life is a b***h, and fear is it's right hand man, while misery is it's left.
The only good thing about my life is that now, I have someone I can finally lean on, and cry. I was always the rock, and heavy lifter. No one else.
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Posted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 9:46 pm
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:40 am
Why is you're Vice Captain when you're suck a Trolling jerk?
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 8:17 am
DaydreamersCosplay Why is you're Vice Captain when you're suck a Trolling jerk? I post alot and try and keep this place alive? I'm only a jerk because my opinions/views are more harsh than yours...
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 1:35 pm
My Name Is Porn DaydreamersCosplay Why is you're Vice Captain when you're suck a Trolling jerk? I post alot and try and keep this place alive? I'm only a jerk because my opinions/views are more harsh than yours... And instead of saying them nicely, or much smoother you sounded hateful. And lol at someone when they say something serious is just rude. I respect my mother and my brother, but a bit less and don't trust them, because they try to control or tried to control my relationship. Glad I have a damned determined boyfriend. Not all adults are severely close minded but a majority of them are. As for your original comment, I still feel like that was just directed toward me, not the whole lot of us. And also with your comment about how they gave birth to my sorry a**. How about you learn about someone before you call them a sorry a**.
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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2011 6:57 pm
That "half minded" comment, indeed was directed towards you but also was just reminding myself on just what I actually know. The sorry a**, I really don't care to know someone before saying what has been said. Their life is prolly harder then mine? Oh well, I just don't care. I really don't get how words can have such an impact on people.
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Posted: Mon Oct 03, 2011 4:54 pm
My Name Is Porn That "half minded" comment, indeed was directed towards you but also was just reminding myself on just what I actually know. The sorry a**, I really don't care to know someone before saying what has been said. Their life is prolly harder then mine? Oh well, I just don't care. I really don't get how words can have such an impact on people. Have you ever heard the pen is stronger than the blade? Words are spoken and sent straight to the mind, and once said can't be taken back, and sometimes not even healed over time. Something demeaning said to a child can impact that child all the way through his/hers life. Actions hurt, but are healed, sometimes not completely, but are still easier to get over. Words, have power, and are used everyday. Someone with a weak confidence can easily be deterred because of them. While words can also make someone feel more superior, thus it makes them more confident. Insulting someone, like you did me previously, is an example on how you want to use your words to be rude, disdainful, and inane. I never insulted you, or really anyone. Even if in your opinion I am a "t**t" that is an insult, while my opinion of the adults I've been around is in fact an opinion, because I have observed them for some time. You have just read my post and thought me something, then proceeded to call me it. Calling someone a "t**t" is not "reminding myself on just what I actually know"..... It is being rude.
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Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2011 6:21 pm
And that's what I do...I know I'm a douchebag,d**k,p***k,t**t,f** what have you. In my opinion being the nice guy= no Fun. I'm enjoying being a d**k now so when I die and reach the big empty, I'll have my arms wide open.
I know, that in the end I'll get what I deserve, I know i'ma get my a** kicked one of these times if not more. Do I care? No, I'll accept whatever my punishment is with open arms and a big smile on my face
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