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 Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2006 7:03 am
OK, I am getting ready to gradate from high school soon, and go off to boot camp.
The problem is the only way to do this is to send my daughter (12 months now) to my aunt and uncles house for the time that i'm away.
She has met them like 2-3 times, she liked them and all, but dosent know them too well. I have left her with my aunt and uncle before while I went places, but thats for hours, not months.
I dont know how ok she would be with it. And its not like she can tell me "mama dont go" cuz she cant talk, she can just cry when i leave.....
I fully trust my family to take care of her well, i am just unsure of how caty will take it.
She has never been away from me for more than 24 hours, and even that was with her daddy.... other than that she has only been at daycare while i'm at school.
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2006 9:07 pm
Maybe while you're still around you could have her spend a day or two with them. That way she can get used to being around them all day so that when you're off at boot camp it won't be so strange. I think just trying to maximize the time she's around them while you're still at home will make it easier when you leave.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2006 12:50 pm
Liera Unullagata Maybe while you're still around you could have her spend a day or two with them. That way she can get used to being around them all day so that when you're off at boot camp it won't be so strange. I think just trying to maximize the time she's around them while you're still at home will make it easier when you leave.
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 12:15 am
I think that you should bring her to your Aunt and Uncle's house everyday if you can, and each time gradually drift apart so it wont be as dramatic when you leave....
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Posted: Mon May 29, 2006 8:11 pm
Spend time with her, but as you prepare for leaving leave her more and more with them. I would also strongly suggest you do a couple of overnights there before you leave. Also surround her with as much of her own stuff as you can while at their house.
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