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Hey guys. There has been something bothering me lately and I thought you guys could help me.

I have recently moved to a new state, about 900 miles from my home state. That means I've also been going to a new school, and have new friends.

Weellll, my one friend asked me if I was bisexual. For the first time in my life, I told her the truth: Yes, I am, and yes, I'm more attracted to women.

Well. It turns out that she is also bisexual. In fact, all of her girl friends (that I've met) are bisexual. Actually, she told them I was bisexual.

I've been hanging out with these girls for a few weeks. Even though I think I'm bisexual, why am I regretting telling my friend? I've started to wonder if I just think I'm bisexual. But I like a girl...Surely that isn't fake? I'm just kind of...confused, you could say, of why I'm regretting telling them so much. Do you girls have any ideas? I'd like to get this weight off of my shoulders. sweatdrop

Omigosh that's exactly what I feel ALL THE TIME. But my question to myself always is: why would I be scared to come out as something I'm not? Then I don't doubt it anymore (:

I think that this feeling is probrally just a phase and you are probrally just not used to having so much people expecially people who r also bisexual know that you are biseual. You just need to get a little more used to it and i think that after a week or two it will all blow over.

Its simple. Suddenly you're in a group of girls like you that seem so sure of themselves. The psychological term for your self doubt I believe is called poser syndrome. Though I could be mistaken. At any rate its when you feel like a fraud or a fake at what you are or what you do, mostly when sorrounded by people that are or do the same as you. You could feel doubtful of what you are even though you know you are, or like you don't belong, like you're a poser. But don't worry its only a feeling and you just have to sit back and remind yourself that you know yourself better than anyone.