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 Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:50 am
Instantly stop you in your tracks?
I can't get my head around it sort of and I'm sorry to post this here but I needed to put it somewhere or I think my brain is going to melt out my ears. Or it'll just help me sort a few things out.
My grandfather has prostate cancer. Ok..I can say that without bursting into tears now so..I'm getting there. But when grandma goes he's 'poorly' you're not really expecting the answer to 'oh what's wrong with him?" to be cancer. I sort of went numb I guess. What do you say? We don't know how bad it is (he has to go back to hospital for bone marrow tests) but I mean...how long have they all known? Why didn't I get told? Mum didn't tell me (how long did she know)...and grandma called me on my mobile.
I mean, am I being unreasonable? I just.I would have liked to know. Mum says she wanted to know how bad first but..what if it is really bad? And i had no way to prepare. I just got..he has three months tops to live or something. I wanted to get married next year...and he might not be there. I don't know what to do.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:04 am
+Big hugs.+ Breathe, honey. Breathe and remember two things. There's no expiration date stamped on him anywhere and time is precious. You have some. Make the most of it.
They were probably trying to shield you, as ill-placed as that must seem right now.
+Hugs again.+ If you need someone at which to virtually scream, we're all here for you. I don't think I'm too far out on a limb saying so.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:09 am
*hugs tight* I know...I just...I guess we have to wait for doctors again.
And thank you V. I think that was pretty much my scream for the moment.
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:49 am
I'll keep you and yours in my thoughts. +Squish.+
Still, we're here. Well, ish. I'm off to sleep before work tonight. +G+
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Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 5:36 am
*loves on the MEvil* =( Good thoughts from me too!! And if there's anything I can do, please let me know. No idea what that might be, but there it is. *lovelovelove*
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 3:48 am
Thanks for your support guys. I'm feeling a bit better about things today.
*super hugs for all
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Posted: Sun Apr 15, 2012 5:06 am
*licks* Glad to hear it. heart Hang in there, babe.
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Posted: Wed Apr 18, 2012 3:32 pm
You have my support too!
(Even though it is super late sweatdrop )
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Posted: Thu Apr 19, 2012 5:32 am
Hehe all support is welcome Mich. Some days are better than others
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