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Emmi Heldt

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PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 4:13 pm


Ever have a weird almost-affection for someone? Like, you don't know if you like them more than a friend or if it's just hormones and loneliness projecting onto the nearest attractive candidate? Yeah, I kinda have that problem right now. So let's get the basics down.

I have never seriously been in a relationship with another woman, ever.
Why? Because the "bisexual" women are too busy chasing after guys and the lesbians were people I'd rather be friends with. Plus, girls are total drama queens, I know because I am one.

I rarely have romantic feelings for women, when it comes to my sexual preferences and my romantic preferences, women are usually strictly my sexual preference. I like to think of myself as bisexual, but not biromantic. Though, there are sometimes where I have an affectionate feeling for another woman, but those feelings come once a blue moon.

I am currently dating someone, although I am polyamrous.
However, I do not know if the person I have a feeling for (besides the person I'm dating, who've I've been dating for three years officially and six unofficially) is okay with the thought of me dating another person as well as her, and perhaps dating one more person. I have a strong want to have two men in my life at the same time romantically, and also perhaps a girlfriend as well. The fact that the chick I have a feeling for is more than likely strictly lesbian kinda makes me nervous about this whole polyamory thing, also, I don't know if she's cool with me being with multiple people romantically at the same time.

I am greedy in bed.
I find myself more of a receiver of sexual favors than a giver of them. Plus, in bedroom situations, I am the most boring sexual partner ever thanks to lack of sexual confidence in bed. I know plenty of tricks, but using them? Nah, too shy and unsure of my partner's reaction to go all out.

I already know she more than likely has a feeler for me, due to the fact I have awesome woo-ing skills, so I don't need to worry about that part. However, the other s**t... Yeah. Any advice, chickkas?
PostPosted: Wed Jul 04, 2012 4:23 pm


How about you just ASK her about it?And,y'know,I hear that if you have lack of confidence in the bedroom,it may be because of something else in your life that you have a lack of confidence in.They say that other areas of your life and relationships can have a great affect on your sex life.So,about the girl,if you don't ask her,chances are you'll never know for sure how she feels about being in a polyamorous relationship or being with someone who is in one.It'd probably be best if you just talk to her.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 6:38 pm


I agree with the above advice, and as for the whole having tricks for bed. all you can do is at lest try them out if they don't work than they don't work but at east it may spice things up, well if they need spicing up razz . But yeah the best thing to do about the polyamorous thing is to just talk to our girl about it. I thought I would never want to be in an open relationship (I know its not the same) but here I am in one. Anyway just ask her. I hope I helped
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