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 Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 11:14 pm
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:10 am
I'm not really 100% what to call myself. I know I like all kinds. I think I might swing both ways, but I've never done it before to know exactly what I like. I know pr0nz is great.
I'm also one who isn't concerned about getting a date or significant other. I was one of the few rare virgins in my high school. Never had sex, never drank or smoked, or did drugs of any kind. Very rare in my high school.
I'm also a carnivore I guess. I won't eat any sort of veggie, except for fresh corn on the cob. That's delicious. I loves most kinds of meat. Turkey, chicken, deer, cow... whatever. It's great. I have this strange urge that makes me wonder what other meat tastes like. Like what do dogs and cats taste like? Or bunnies? Or people? Not that I'd ever try to eat a person, BUT IT STILL MAKES ME WONDER.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 12:52 pm
Kakona Well as I don't know how old you are, that might be normal. Especially if your between 13-19. I know I was very conflicted about what exactly it was I was attracted to until about three years ago. So I was 20. I finally came out to my family last year (as bisexual because they wouldn't understand the truth honestly). Unless your dead your tastes change, you like new things, stop liking old things, etc as you get older. I don't know anyone who hasn't had that happen. So of my older BDSM friends are in their forties and I value their advice and experience on things they've tried but are not always into now. I'm 20 and well, I'm still celibate. I really don't care about dating and stuff yet. I'm just worried about getting a job and moving out of my parent's house. I don't need a relationship to have to worry about too. Eventually, I'll find someone and figure out what things I like to do in bed, but for now, it's not even close to being on my mind.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:08 pm
Kakona Inyl I am not sure you understand what this topic was made for. Being celibate and mostly eating meat is hardly something considered an alternative lifestyle as no one cares except vegans/vegetarians if you eat meat and being celibate is a preferred choice for unmarried women in almost every major religion. Alright, sorry. That's all I could think of.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:11 pm
4laugh Hopefully more people will come out and join us.
I was introduced to the "Dark Side" at a super young age by one of my first boyfriends, who is a very close friend now. He talked me into being a Domme and it kind of felt awesome.
My boyfriend recently opened up to me and said he was interested in being in a D/s relationship so I'm basically the happiest girl on earth whee
Gender wise I definitely feel most comfortable as a woman.
I'm straight but flexible, girls are definitely attractive to me and I would have sexual relations with some fiiiine ladies but I don't think I would have an emotional relationship. It really depends on the person. cool
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:15 pm
I'm pan-sexual too. When it comes to gender, I like them all and those in between. As for my gender, I see myself as male.
Uh, that's all I could think of at the moment. emotion_c8
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 1:30 pm
Some of you may already know this, since I'm not one to hold anything back, but I am a transwoman. For the uninitiated, that means I'm a woman that had the grave misfortune of being born with a Y chromosome.
I'm still quite early in my transition, I'm in the process of getting a doctor that can then refer me to an endocrinologist (a doctor specializing in hormones). I got a long road ahead of me, but I have plenty of support. Like Kako, I'm also not active in the GLBT community for similar reasons. However, one of my friends is a trans activist and has put more pressure on Pride Canada to be more inclusive of trans people, as opposed to just saying they are when they were clearly not.
despite my appearance, I'm not overly interested in BDSM, although i do like the aesthetic X3. I do have some BDSM tendencies (ie hair pulled, spanked, restrained) but I'm quite content in the shallow end of the BDSM pool.
i do have to vent about a few pet peeves though. pronouns - She and Her please, don't try and be cute with terms like "shim" or "it". Although I'm not fully out, it still irks me when people call me "sir" or "man" but they have no idea so i really can't fault them.
also I'm Trans, not a tranny, a she-male, a he-she, nor a drag queen. those first three are derogatory, the last one however is just inaccurate. Drag queens are performers, wearing often elaborate costumes as opposed to what your average person would wear. Not all Trans women are Drag Queens, and vice versa.
well that's all for now, I'll be sure to rant some more when i got more to b***h about XP
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:01 pm
Good luck on your TRANSition (okay that was a bad pun). wink
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:10 pm
I'm not sure if this completely fits here. I am female and comfortably so, but i do enjoy cosplaying as males. Yes. Cross-play. I bind my chest too. I know it's not as big of deal for females to do this as males to dress in female cosplay. Though when i told my now ex-boyfriend (we where together at the time) that i was planning on going to a con as a guy. He freaked.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:32 pm
I would consider that alternative. if i may ask and not be intrusive, have you considered crossing beyond cosplay? you don't need to answer if you do not feel comfortable discussing it. one thing I'd like to add though, i was in a similar situation when I came out to my then girlfriend. she was none to thrilled about the fact she was a surprise lesbian. she got over it after a while. she could understand where i was coming from, since she herself was trans as well. however, me telling her was the straw that broke the camels back in an already strained relationship.
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:42 pm
I don't dress too much out side of my cosplays. Though I do wear cargo pants most of the time and I do have boys shorts and such. I do have some men's style women's wear though... like my vests. I love vests. While this issue didn't break us up. It was one of those things that was between us. He didn't respect my beliefs and views, calling them what i was raised by... meaning they weren't mine.
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