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 Posted: Fri Dec 07, 2012 5:44 pm
Okay. I really need help guys.. and this is the only place where I think I can get it without being judged. -sigh- Here goes. A couple of months ago, I registered myself as a bisexual. I had strongly felt that that was what my sexual orientation was. I even had a couple of girlfriends here and there, and actually had feelings for them. But, a couple of months ago, I also had been a part of a community that excepted who I was. But, I am now living in a completely different environment where talking about sexual orientations that aren't heterosexual, is kind of treated as a taboo subject. Where I live now, I have only told a single person about my sexuality. The other day, a friend that I have been friends with since 3rd grade, who lives where I used to live, confronted me on Facebook and asked me if I am bisexual. I quickly deleted the comment because my mom, my dad, nor a vast majority of my friends know about my sexuality because I'm basically afraid of what they might think. I'm kind of afraid that they would treat me differently. Anyway, I still haven't answered. To be honest I'm not even sure where my sexuality lies because around where I live now, homosexual relationships.. I don't want to say discouraged, but it doesn't seem like it's something that is brought up in dinner table conversations if you get what I mean. Whereas, where I'm originally from, it's a widely discussed topic. So I guess I'm just confused because since I'm not exposed to anything encouraging or accepting. I'm not sure what to do... it's like I'm going through my early teen's confusion all over again ! D: Any advice?
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 10:52 pm
i wish i could offer advice for an easy soloution... but one doesnt exist.
they best thing would be to seriously think about how you feel and what you think you are. Once you are positive with who are are and comfortable with it, the only thing to do is to slowly come out with it. it is a really hard thing to do but it is worth it eventually.
Unfortunatly, you may lose a friend or two... maybe even lose contact with some family memebers..... it is sad that they cant accept a person for who they are. You are the same person who have been but people dont seem to see this....
if you need to talk more or have any questions, please, feel free to message me,
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Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2012 9:07 pm
Yami Akuma i wish i could offer advice for an easy soloution... but one doesnt exist. they best thing would be to seriously think about how you feel and what you think you are. Once you are positive with who are are and comfortable with it, the only thing to do is to slowly come out with it. it is a really hard thing to do but it is worth it eventually. Unfortunatly, you may lose a friend or two... maybe even lose contact with some family memebers..... it is sad that they cant accept a person for who they are. You are the same person who have been but people dont seem to see this.... if you need to talk more or have any questions, please, feel free to message me, but I already "came out" as some people may call it. but the change in environment has caused me to question whether or not I was correct on what sexuality I was. Which was bisexual btw. I mean... I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual... because I kind of have a crush on this girl at school but that's besides the point. Because of the fact that I'm not as exposed to homosexual beliefs as I once was, and I'm virtually surrounded by straight people pretty much. I think the best way to say this is that I think it makes me think that I'M straight... If you get where I'm coming from. During my freshman year, I was questioning my sexuality, and I thought I knew what I was, but now.... it's like I'm going through that whole cycle again :/
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Posted: Tue Dec 25, 2012 1:41 pm
xX Ducky Squadron Xx Yami Akuma i wish i could offer advice for an easy soloution... but one doesnt exist. they best thing would be to seriously think about how you feel and what you think you are. Once you are positive with who are are and comfortable with it, the only thing to do is to slowly come out with it. it is a really hard thing to do but it is worth it eventually. Unfortunatly, you may lose a friend or two... maybe even lose contact with some family memebers..... it is sad that they cant accept a person for who they are. You are the same person who have been but people dont seem to see this.... if you need to talk more or have any questions, please, feel free to message me, but I already "came out" as some people may call it. but the change in environment has caused me to question whether or not I was correct on what sexuality I was. Which was bisexual btw. I mean... I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual... because I kind of have a crush on this girl at school but that's besides the point. Because of the fact that I'm not as exposed to homosexual beliefs as I once was, and I'm virtually surrounded by straight people pretty much. I think the best way to say this is that I think it makes me think that I'M straight... If you get where I'm coming from. During my freshman year, I was questioning my sexuality, and I thought I knew what I was, but now.... it's like I'm going through that whole cycle again :/ that makes sense.... in todays society (over all) thereare so many different sexual orientations that you really hve to ask your self "Whyor what is it about this perosn i like"... in my group of friends i've got the spectrum covered >< bi, gay, lesbian, demi, pan.... the people around you may make you think one thing, but if you do have a crush on someone, whether it male or female or whatever, ask yourself what attracts you to them
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